How have you been influenced by reading the book or watching the lecture? What message would you like to share with others who’ve been touched by Randy and his story?
May 31st, 2009 at 7:03 pm
I wish there was a way to send Randy a hand written thank you note for sharing his life experiences with us.A friend shared his book with me and maybe it was timing...not sure but this book was exactly what I needed right now. This book awoke many childhood memories that made me who I am today. Appreciative of my friends, family, and people that influenced my life. Opened my eyes to different ways of approaching things. And hopefully of communicating things better. I plan to share this book with those I love. To your children, it is my hope and prayer that they know and feel how you have inspired and touched so many...and that they inherited some of your wonderful traits. To Jai, I cannot imagine your loss, this is the only point in the book that truly made me cry...your strength for Randy was amazing, your honesty and love for him cannot be matched. I hope that you have the help and support you need...and that you might someday help others. God bless you and your children and thank you for sharing your husband with all of us...he made many a better person.
Marcia Henkes
May 31st, 2009 at 12:01 pm
I just finished "The Last Lecture" and have decided to write letters to those I love to tell them what a blessing they are in my life and in others lives. I am going to put those letters in a copy of this book and give each of them a letter and the book. I will be forever thankful to Randy for sharing his story. May God bless Randy's family and friends.
Janie Ford
May 31st, 2009 at 4:15 am
Life lessons. Positive reinforcement. I have read it twice now and I will read it again!!
Jo Ann
May 30th, 2009 at 8:58 pm
Well i just got through reading the book as part of my seventh grade reading list and i must say that i am in tears right now. He is truely the perfect person. I will always remember him. Even though i dont and never will know him he will always be an inspiration to me. He was everything someone should be kind, friendly ,strict , and fun loving and i want to be just like him when i grow up. He had an amazing effect on anyone near him. He helped them acheive their childhood dreams. He was calm in the face of fear and i know that he would have aced that star fleet test and still believe in no win scenarios. I am a 12 year old girl living in a dallas suburb and i have truely been changed by this book.
Hannah
May 30th, 2009 at 6:53 pm
WOW! What a great inspiration this book has been for me! I didn't know what to expect going into it and i truely took a lot away from it. I have a whole new perspective on how i view things and how i should live my life. Its really hit me that you gotta live life to the fullest and pick your battles because as Randy said, "time is all you have and you may find one day you have less time than you think." That is so true and life is taken for granted by so many people nowadays. This has been a great eye-opener for myself and everyone i will recommend it to. My thoughts and prayers are with Jai and their 3 precious children <3
Jonay Stockton
May 30th, 2009 at 2:53 pm
Now that I have finished the book I must go through it again and make a list of the fun, interesting and exciting ways of living life to the fullest. We have NOTHING to lose, everything to gain by the things that Randy so wonderfully left for all of us. Thank you, Randy!
Maggie
May 30th, 2009 at 10:45 am
When I finished the book.I thought i must give this book to everyone i known.This book have changed my mind.Because Dr.Pausch lived everyday to the fillest.I knew that but i still have somethings that i haven't did when the days come to an end.I was fully satisfied when i finished the book.
Grace Chan,F.2 skhlmcss
May 30th, 2009 at 8:09 am
My dad was killed in an auto accident in 1945. I was 8 years old. Because my parents were very involved together in our community, the tragic loss was devastating to my mother. Alcohol took over her life for a number of years and that was followed by breast cancer that took her life after thirteen years of misery. My older brother, younger sister and I made it through the tough times and basically, survived. Because of the timing, no plans had been made for our family to carry on after the loss of a parent. I know that I have not grown to my full potential owing to the fact that I was afraid to take chances. However, we did carry on and following the loss of our mother at age sixty, my siblings and I are doing well.
I know that Randy made the necessary plans for his family to, not only survive, but to grow as individuals. Jai will make the right choices in dealing with the loss of a very important part of her life. The three children will grow knowing their father loved them and gave them the tools with which to make the right choices. Choices, not chance, mold our destiny. Each of them has the benefit of knowing how much an outstanding person that was taken from them at a very early age loved them. My thoughts and prayers are with them and the many lives they have touched.
JOC
May 30th, 2009 at 12:58 am
The book gave me courage and tought me the importnace of my lifetime. From the day when i finished to read, I have tried to spend each day in my best. Thank you for your greatest lecture.
Koki
May 29th, 2009 at 8:00 pm
This book has changed my life so dramatically that I never leave home without a copy in my handbag. So far, I've given away 11 copies. I can't help but share it with others. Linus had his blanket and I have Randy's book. Who knew that the brick walls were not there to keep you out but, to make you prove how bad you wanted it! Profound for sure. Wish I'd have met Randy 20 years ago! School would have been so much easier!
For my upcoming fortieth birthday I am having a gold disc engraved with a brick wall pattern on it. I will put it on my charm bracelet so I have a permanent reminder. Randy's legacy is at work in my life everyday and I'm sure it is in others lives as well. I would like Jai to know how grateful I am for sharing her husband at such a difficult time in there lives. She is truly a selfless human being. From the bottom of my very humble heart, thank you to you and your sweet family for letting me benefit from Randy's wisdom. It has come to me at one of the most difficult times in my life and has given me a tremendous sense of hope! I needed that more than you could ever know!
The Lord bless you and keep you, the Lord make his face to shine upon you and give you peace.
Victoria Barker Pino
May 29th, 2009 at 7:51 am
I read this book thinking I would think new ideas. In reality, I finished the book a new person. I live each day to the fullest, I don't need cancer to teach me that I need to enjoy life. Randy's book taught me all of that. I have been recommending this book to everyonr I know, this is the kind of book that can change the world.
Megan
May 29th, 2009 at 6:40 am
Once my Computer teacher had told me about The Last Lecture in his class. I didn't notice any diffirence in his words 'til he said "It's written by a com sci professor. .." It's nothing but my own interest in computer and programing that made me bought The Last Lecture (May I call shortly as TLL). I finished reading it in one and a half night. .. and it'd changed my life forever. This book INSPIRED me to do as I always dream to do. Now I'm studying in grade 12, the last year of high school, and I've to choose what will I study next yr. This's been the biggest problem of mine for ages. Mom's never wanted me to be in any field but Medical. I can't deny her or any other in my family. But after I'd read TLL, I'd gain a lot of ideas for my coming life. I found that I can do whatever I want, I can go on my own way and my family will understand them. I started to draw my life. I wish (as I always wish) one day I could be one of the software engineers in the biggest company of the world.. . Randy dreamt to be against the gravity and he can do, so do I. When I'm weary, I thoght of those words in the books, the words from Randy, from all people around him, they encourage me to walk on. ..and I'll reach my dreams. Thanks for leading me the better visions. ..
Khanittha P., Thailand
May 28th, 2009 at 1:30 pm
Before reading this book, I've been a sort of person who didn't want to do my best in my life anytime.but now I'm deeply inspired by Randy. Through this book, I can learn How important i become a optimist and How valuable spending my time for others is...
I personally think Randy must be one of the greatest educators all over the world.Seeing that,he makes me come to this place and write this comment even though I'm not good at Eglish.
Anyhow I appreciate his sincere effort to inspire all the people from bottom of my heart and I hope I could become a person just like him who gives as much of value as he can as an example of others.
From a woman of 27year-old comes from Korea..
Hyehyun
May 28th, 2009 at 11:24 am
inspirational.made me realise the importance of relationships.my junior(am a lawyer)wanted to leave my office saying am harsh. i just asked him to read two chapters. those on football coach and tommy. my junior has decided to stay with me.and i have made up my mind to be more restrained. grswaminathan india
g r swaminathan
May 27th, 2009 at 8:49 am
The Last Lecture is truly inspiring. This book shows the world how one person can have that much bravery and courage in the face of adversity and yet, at the same time, have the ability to influence and inspire so many.
Randy's last lecture is a legacy - for his children and millions of readers out there. It is a book that will serve to educate, inspire and reflect. I, for one, can certainly attest to that.
ann
May 27th, 2009 at 4:54 am
A close friend of mine, told me about this book yesterday. I admit that I am not a good reader, yet just now I browsed the net to get to know about this book. Just by reading what people say about this inspirational book, tears rolled down my cheeks. I am an Artist who can very well feel it in my heart. So now I am preparing to read it and spread it to people who really want to gain life positively.
Hats off to Dr. Randy.
I pray for Jai and the three kids.
Now Randy is in God's lap.
Aruna, INDIA
May 25th, 2009 at 3:54 pm
A friend of mine emailed me the video of the last lecture to watch. Man, was I touched. I sent it to all i had in my contact list as I feel there was much we all could learn from such an inspirational person. I couldn't wait for the book to come out which I bought right away. I couldn't put it down once I started reading it. I was very touched by Randy's positive heart. I believe we all need to live for today, in the moment, stop sweating the small stuff and stop and just enjoy life in a more simple manner. Randy not only helps you think of life differently and to go after your dream but to look at life, family, friends, nature and just enjoy living. Thanks Randy
Rhonda
Rhonda
May 24th, 2009 at 9:42 pm
I also was just looking for something to read to pass some time and saw this book. I remembered seeing something about on Oprah so ended up buying it. I am so thankful that I did. It's been one of the most encouraging and uplifting book I've read. I could never have the words that Jai and the children need to lessen the pain of losing someone who has left behind such a legacy. I'm sure the pride they have now and will always have in Randy will only grow stronger as the kids get older. How lucky they are to have had a wonderful father and to have such a wonderful mother! This book was truely inspiring to me and I plan on giving many copies out to relatives and friends to inspire them to go for their dreams. Thank you for such a fantastic gift! The gift of continuing to dream no matter what life deals you.
Vicki
May 24th, 2009 at 7:10 pm
Randy's book was amazing, but I am confused with my own life. My childhood dream is to become a country music singer/songwriter. I'm not sure if I have enough natural talent to do this, and my mom doesn't think so either. So...should I work hard to make my dream come true, or should I use my 4.0 GPA to become an optometrist?
Randy is so inspiring, and it is amazing how he has touched so many people's lives. His family should be proud of him, and my best wishes go out to them for their loss. Randy left behind such a great lecture that will touch people for generations to come.
C.M.H.
May 24th, 2009 at 4:52 pm
I meet the love of my life March 5th,2005
Well fell in love the moment we meet,got married 6 months later.One month after getting married we where told he had Pancreatic Cancer.It was the worst news anyone can be told. We did everything to fight for more time. From Surgery to chemo and radiation. He was the strongest man i know. We lost our battle with this cancer 2 yrs 2 months after we got married.i miss him everyday.I found this wonderful book thank you for sharing The Last Lecture.
Deb
May 24th, 2009 at 6:19 am
"The brick walls are there to give us a chance to show how badly we want smething."This is the sentence i love most.
I'am going to be a college student this september.I am a girl from Taiwan, it's lucky to learn these beautiful things from Randy.I read it very slowly.One reaon is that i am not a native,anther reason is that it takes time to feel these words.I got a lot from this book :)
Thanks,Randy
can you hear me?
jojing
May 24th, 2009 at 12:30 am
I just finished the "Last Lecture" and my life is changed I am going to begin living as a tigger i am going to smell the crayons when i feel the need to go back, although i am only 16 i feel that Randy's story has changed my life for the better even though he is no longer with us i would like to thank him for all the lessons i just learned in this book. And Jai thanks for being such a strong woman and sticking with him through his illness, i'm sure your children will turn out to be great.
Maricruz
May 23rd, 2009 at 4:30 pm
I have watch your speech thru internet and Just let you know your message reaches further the distance you imagine.
Thanks million.
İstanbul
Serkant
May 23rd, 2009 at 4:05 am
I wandered through my local Walmart looking for a semi-decent book to pass my already boring Thursday night....I happened upon this book. Not thinking it would touch me so deeply, I bought it just make the night end a little sooner. A day and a half later I'm sitting in bed at 5 a.m. in tears as I finish this ultra-life changing book....remembering my o-so-familiar scent of crayons from childhood. I'm 26 yrs old and am reminded by this book that when small things are done well over a period of time can make a difference in someone elses life. I work closely with teenagers and have seen the "fruit" come from kids who are backed by people who love them and believe they have more and more to offer!
What a legacy to leave behind! To speak not of profit or selfish gain, but how to build others up so they may achieve their childhood dreams!
.....Truely a Tigger at heart lives to serve in the lives of others!!
Jamie
May 22nd, 2009 at 8:57 pm
All my children my 3 grown & my 9 grandchildren are getting a copy of this book. I am inspired to live a more abundant life & share what I have learned with my family & friends.
Thank you, Randy & Jai for making it possible for Randy to give "The Last Lecture. You are my heroes!!
Jessie Bovee
May 22nd, 2009 at 6:59 am
I've just finished reading The Last Lecture in my English class...about a minute ago actually.This was one of the most uplifting and inspirational books I've eve read. I come from a crazy family where I've lost family members in the war in Iraq, to cancer, and some are going through cancer. But even if you haven't lost anyone you can still feel hope when reading this. I couldn't even tell you how many times I laughed or cried while reading this, and just had my classmates stare at me. I feel like I'm a lot like the person Randy was, so it's nice to know you're not alone. This book is a book I will now purchase asap and read when ever I feel the need. (which might be quite often) I'm also passing it on for my Mom to read and I'm sure she will involve her friends. I've been going through some life challenges lately and honestly this book has helped a great deal I truly hope that I get to leave my mark on the world and I have so many great stories to tell when I'm older. Jai, and her three kids should eel extremely lucky. And I'm sure they do. His kids definatly won the parent lottery. May Randy rest in peace, and It's a shame the world lost such a wonderful person so soon.
Lindsey Hancock
May 21st, 2009 at 12:27 pm
The term "head fake" has become the catch phrase in our classroom. We use Randy's book and lecture in class to lead discussion for insight into choices and carving out meaningful paths in Life. (I teach in a small alternative ed classroom in PA, working with kids struggling with the consequences of poor choices and lacking vision.)
We have daily "Thoughts" posted that we reflect on and discuss. More often than not, the thought is a quote from Randy.
And most importantly, we reflect on the kind of father and husband this man was to spend his final days creating something valuable for his family,...and how the Universe honors such love and generosity with a power that circles and blesses the world.
Thank you, Randy for your life and your story. And thanks to your family for letting us share in its beauty.
Mount Joy, PA
Donegal STRUCTURE Program
(Students learning to Trust Reality,and Understand Character, Truth, Uniqueness, Respect, and Equality)
BrianMcCreary
May 21st, 2009 at 11:28 am
It is really great!!!The thoughts of Randy has made live my life in a better way, have changed my outlook....and being a teacher I have got many new ideas to share with my students....Thanks to Jai and your kids for sparing Randy for writing this book....
Nessy Lijo
May 20th, 2009 at 8:01 pm
wow, I bought this book when it was first published after seeing part of Randy's lecture on TV. I was in the middle of another book and lent it to my husband (who was recovering from another back surgery and was feeling really down, but he isn't a "reader"). He LOST it!! I finally found it under my bed and finished it within a couple of days, it was so engaging. I can't wait to share this book with others especially those who have a negative outlook on life. I came to the website to get some more background, expecting the site to be somewhat outdated (I know, what was I thinking given the computer genius' Randy left behind) and was surprised that all this time later, people are still posting almost daily. He was a wonderful person and I am thankful that he took some of the little bit of time he had left with his family to write this book and give the lecture. I know alot of it was for his family, but also for his friends, extended family, students and us strangers (though I get the feeling no one was a stranger to Randy). I'm sorry the kids won't have their father with them in the physical sense, but he will always be with them and Jai in some way, he made sure of that. By the way, I have a daughter named Chloe also! If you haven't done so yet, I highly recommend anyone and everyone to take the time to read this book and share it with others!
Sherry Buchanan New Castle, DE
May 20th, 2009 at 2:04 pm
Before reading the last lecture, I thought I had the whole world straightened out. I had this idea that I could handle anything that came my way.
Then, I was handed a book. "Read this, you'll really enjoy it," a friend told me. I followed his instructions, and I found that my world was completely changed. I learned that the lessons you learn as a child, which I still am considered, will change your life forever. I had always underestimated this statement, but after reading what Dr. Pausch had to say, my opinion changed. I also learned how important it is to value life; and from there, I have cherished every moment, whether it was enjoyable or not. I also learned things about other people, such as giving people you're angry with a chance. Long story short, Randy Pausch is an inspiration to all.
Impacted Soul
May 20th, 2009 at 3:08 am
thanks RANDY.
such an inspirational work,
a gift for everyone!
Jayakrishnan.K.P
May 19th, 2009 at 8:03 pm
I just finished the book, and it is the most loving, inspirational text I have ever read. I loved how Randy expressed his love for his family and friends. I know his children will appreciate his efforts as they grow up. Reading Randy's book made me realize several things 1. I wish I would have had a college professor like Randy. I am not a computer whiz by any means but his class and his teaching style sounds infectious! 2. I will reflect on my relationships with my friends and family and take some of Randy's advice. 3. I will revisit my childhood dreams and make a new "to do list".
Although I was in tears when I finished, I had a uplifting feeling. All my best to Jai and her children.
Katie - Summerville, SC
Katie Todd
May 19th, 2009 at 10:08 am
Randy is really one of my heros. I have been so inspired by the lecture, and just now on a flight earlier this week I was able to read his book.
He really left us all a gift.
QUESTION!
Can someone please tell me if the rocket on the book cover is the rocket that Randy painted on his bedroom wall?
I have been so inspired by his story and his journey, that I would like to tattoo that rocket on my wrist as a reminder to DREAM BIG!
Asher Noel
May 19th, 2009 at 8:13 am
I completed the book just days ago. Randy did a wonderful job of leaving his legacy. Jai and his children are blessed to have had such an inspiring and optimistic person in their life. The world needs more "Randys"! For his children: your father is helping so many achieve their dreams and goals. What a wonderful thing to be proud of! God bless you Jai. I have three kids of my own, I admire you!
Kat
May 19th, 2009 at 1:12 am
After reading the book and watching the lecture, I want to thank you Randy for reminding me to be a Tigger, not an Eeyore.
Alicia
May 18th, 2009 at 9:08 pm
I am a child whom lost her father due to a brain tumor when I was eight. I have often struggled with memories, the sound of his voice, and asked the question “what would he do?” I know that I have not made all the right decisions- but as Randy says “Experience is what you get when you don’t get what you wanted.” I am only 31, but I have gained a lot of experience!
I am now a nurse, and currently pursuing my Master’s degree, have a 7 year old, and I would like to believe that I have made him proud on more than one occasion. I am told I am very much like him, and that pleases me. Like I mentioned, I am glad I do have some memories and that he was able to pass on some qualities, whether I realized he was doing it or not. My best memories are of us doing math problems, it was a love of his, and has always been my favorite subject, (guess we were nerds too.)
My mother has often gone unappreciated for raising me alone, and so if this is ever read by Dylan, Logan, or Chloe- my message to them would be, remember your father, look at old photos, letters, videos- but then look at your mother, realize the strength and wonderful things she does daily. It is hard to get up every day and keep going, but she does, and she always will. She is alive, and will keep him alive as well.
I only listened to the lecture 6 months or so ago, so I was behind- and I just finished the book. It was inspiring, and he must be a great man. I refuse to use past tense- because he is very much alive in many peoples’ lives, mine being one of them. I talk about him like I know him, because he let the public in, and let us all see that life is still good, even under the worst circumstances.
I also just watched Oprah a few days ago, and Jai was on briefly, it was during Dr. Oz’s last show- her strength is amazing. Jai – you are an inspiration as well!
I had to comment here, because the story is so touching, so close to home- I have told so many people about it, and I found out about the lecture from a patient. I see many ill people daily, and I have used this lecture to help cope with seeing so much sadness around the world.
Thank you, Randy and Jai for letting the world in, sharing your determination, inspiration, and will to live. I am better for knowing you both. And Randy, you are missed!
Julie Brown
May 18th, 2009 at 4:54 am
Not knowing what to say but this book inspired me a lot and reminds me to appreciate my loved ones around me from time to time. To Jai and her three small kids, be optimistic, Randy's love is everywhere without you seeing it. May God bless you~
mcky1224
May 17th, 2009 at 11:25 am
i am still ring the book and already i can tell that its going to be one of those books that will make me look in and reevauate my self. this book a simple message and that is if you can dream it a a kid then who says you cant do it. i first heard about the book from my girlfriend who loves to read books like this one. i was on the phone one night mad about my day hear in iraq and she qouted something randy had said in the book an it calmed me down instantly. you see i am a 21 year old man that is a world apart from my loved ones and friends and im in a war zone were thinkgs can get a little crazy, even now as i get to read this book and get to know andy a little, i know that if he was still here an had the same dream i did as a child (to become a marine) that he would no dought be a great marine and s the lives of others... i have a lot more to say but i will save it to my self and anyone i come in contact with as i tell them about the book so they too can get to knw this man, husband, and in my eyes a marine.
TO Jai
im sorry that you and your children have lost a good father and husband. i often wounder what it would be like if i had lost my father to a war and i do not think that i could be as strong as you must be to get thought this.
once again im sorry and that god had put him here to change the lifes of every one he has met including mine.
thank you
lcpl page patrick usmc iraq
patrick page
May 17th, 2009 at 10:58 am
I have always a pencil when i read a book so i can underline remarkable sentences. This book is still clean otherwise it had to be all underlined. And i'm sorry my english are poor and i can't find another word for "book". I'TS LIKE EATING A SPOON OF HONEY IN THE MORNING. Sweet and nutricious.
Thank you so much.
Mary
May 16th, 2009 at 7:28 pm
Hello. I have just completed The Last Lecture. Wow. I am really touched. Mr. Pausch has made his mark on the world! There is a bill board here in Columbia, SC with his picture on it and a statemen that means so much to anyone who is aware of his heartfelt lecture. He represents one with strength, courage, humility and LOVE.I can't help but to wonder how his wife and children are doing? God bless them! Thank you Jai for standing by your husbands side every step of the way. Thank you for allowing The Last Lecture! We all love you and have been greatly impacted- for life! Best Regards!
Khalia M. Robinson/ Lyricc.
Khalia M. Robinson
May 16th, 2009 at 3:39 pm
When I first saw The Last Lecture on Oprah I had just found out that my dad had 3-6 months left to live. He was dying of colon cancer and was in a 6 year battle with it. It was truly an eye opener to see how hard Randy was fighting to stay alive for his family, and how he wasn't going to let the cancer get the best of him. I cried throughout the whole show, and it made me open my eyes to a lot of things as well. I'm 19 years old and have lost my father and my mother is dying as well. Randy's book made me realize that if you want something in life go after it and dont be afraid of rejection. It taught me to cherish every minute I have with family and friends, which is what I am doing now. I was inspired by Randy's fight and I know anyone that reads the book will be as well. This book is an truly an amazing piece of art!
Jessica
May 16th, 2009 at 12:57 pm
I am a second grade teacher. I will be sharing some of Randy's teachable lessons with my students. This book is an eye opener about life. I am so appreciative that I was able to read this book and take with me so many important lessons. thank you, Randy.
Brianne
May 16th, 2009 at 5:26 am
I have not read the book yet, but I have watched the last lecture video and has really touched my soul.Manhood forgets the real meaning of life while struggling with life and hard conditions. However we do not realize how much we lose in the meantime. Once again this short video has brought me back to the meaning of our life and I really smile up to him gratefully for reminding me this. R.I.P. Dr. , this time you have helped a soul like a real Doctor!
Itir Tunay
May 16th, 2009 at 3:55 am
I just wanted to say thank you Randy, for the tremendous amount of work, energy and strength you have put into your last lecture.
It became worldwide popular because of it's sincerity, openess and heartfelt words.
Although you are not here with us anymore, you have left an important message, that will endure the test of time and inspire many young generations... and most importantly... you have left the earth in a better state than when you came in...
I'm from Kazakhstan, and i join in into the worldwide community with my heart full of gratitude to you Mr Randy and to your family ;)
Thank you.
Askar Amanbayev
May 16th, 2009 at 3:32 am
Thank you Randy for writing such an inspirational book. Also thank you to his family for being so supportive and allowing us to see the great man they had in their lives. I truly wish I could have met him...I have hundreds of questions for him. My grandmother has multiple myeloma, cancer in her bone marrow (from my understanding). Lately, things have been overwhelming. Watching, helplessly, as she deteriorates has been heartbreaking. In addition many family problems and stress from school only adds to this very heavy load. Needless to say I have been very depressed. I have been trying to be strong and fight it, but it is an ongoing battle. Randy's book came to me during my hour of need. Seeing the world through his eyes is truly a humbling experience. I have laughed, cried, and grown so much from this. Thank you very much. This has been a ray of hope for me. Although I still can't see the world like Tigger, I am willing turn Eeyore's frown upside down. (I truly do like Eeyore, for many years now. Irony!) So thank you and God Bless you.
Denisse
May 15th, 2009 at 4:37 pm
A good friend of mine lend me The Last Lecture. I will be forever thankful to her.
I am deeply touched and happy to have come across Randy's legacy. Thank you for sharing your life with us.
Jay, Dylan, Logan & Chloe hoping you feel the good karma always!
Gaby
May 15th, 2009 at 10:48 am
Reading this book is just an eye opener to me and am sure to anyone who will be reading it. Following each lesson and moral in that book will definitely make a difference in everyone's life. Dr. Pausch will be living through this book forever. I think great people never die and Dr. Pausch is just one of those great people who will always live. While reading the book, I always wished I could have met him but now I know everyone can, through his book. He is a true inspiration.
To the Family of Dr.Pausch: Loosing a loved one is not easy. I know it because my father who has always been my role model and everything in life, also died almost a month before Dr.Pausch, but what is important is that we have had such wonderful people in our lives. Anyone who is born dies one day, what is important is how they live and what they leave!
I think I can look at my life from a different angle now as well. Though will have to read this book ____ more times.
Be proud and cherish the memories.
Freshta Ghiaszada
May 15th, 2009 at 7:59 am
I'm a 32 year-old boy who has just read the book spanish edition. I'd like to give my regards to Jay and her kids and wish them the best. This story has really touched me and I've taken some parts of the book to improve my live in some ways. Thank you Randy. Rest in peace.
ALBERT
May 15th, 2009 at 7:17 am
I also have two boys, ages 6 and 4, and a little princess age 2. The book was very insightful and teaches some valuable life lessons. Actions speak louder than words was a key concept. I lost many tears reading the last 10 pages of the book....Read it and realize that every breath we humans take on this earth, is a lucky breath....
Dan Sakers
May 14th, 2009 at 5:21 pm
Imagine being a person with a terminal illness. What they wouldn't give just to have a normal lifespan with their family and freinds, experiencing all that life has to offer.
This is the gift that Randy's book has given me. I feel like I've been given the luxury of being able to look at life through his eyes, without the awful end and it's given me a totally new perspective.
I caught myself in the wood section of Home Depot just savoring the smell of fresh cut wood. Just being able to look at the sun coming through the window through the flowers in the sill just the right way and feeling it's warmth. It's amazing, and so liberating.
This book has cut through all the white noise in my life and has allowed me to focus on the important stuff. I think Randy really held my hand and led me to the meaning of it all!
Thank you so much Randy and Jai for opening your lives to help me.
Sherrie
May 13th, 2009 at 11:04 pm
I`m really want to support Jai, Dylan, Logan & Chloe!!!! I`ve just finished reading Randy's book, and I want to say something to Jai!!! Keep moving forward!!! God Bless U!!!! I`m from Kazakhstan, and when I read the book, the part of me always be there with U!!! With love, Zhanibek
Zhanibek
May 13th, 2009 at 11:03 pm
Jai, You have been blessed and am sure the loss is still so alive within you. I just wanted to say that spirits of such strong individuals as Randy do find a way of communicating with you. I lost my best friend, my sister Miki, in 2005. Our childhood prank was to tie our opposite shoes together if one happened to fall asleep...I often find my sneaker tied together in my bedroom and my husband is not a prankster...Randy is with you each and every day as he is best able to be. Keep his memory and your life together.
Do not allow yourself to lose "yourself." The children are important, but they will grow and you must continue to grow your own personal life, my dear. You are one great lady...we know...Randy told the world.
Judy Moyer
May 11th, 2009 at 11:00 pm
Just want to say thank you and to send my wishes to Jai, Dylan, Logan & Chloe. It is a blessing to have someone like Randy to love and to be loved.
Casey
May 11th, 2009 at 7:26 pm
i read the book it was very touching.im 15 and when i found out her had died that made me rather sad
emma-15
May 11th, 2009 at 7:58 am
Life is short play hard!!!!!
Tracey Davis
May 10th, 2009 at 6:58 pm
Monday May 18th marks the one year anniversary of last years graduation commencement at C.M.U. in which Randy
made what I believe was a surprise appearance and briefly spoke (see You Tube). In his remarks he answered an often asked question to him "why he waited to age 39 to get married". He
responded by saying "because I had to wait that long that where her happiness
was more important than mine". Another
of Randy's repeated messages was to "have fun". For me May 18th will always
be known as, in memory and honor of Randy Pausch, "Her/His Happiness is More Important Than Mine Day" in which
I will set aside part or all of the day
to do something uncharacteristicly fun,
that will include adapting or creating a card for the day. I have encouraged
my oldest son to do the same with his new bride. I'm hoping that a movement
will be created that has much more significance than Valentines Day. For
true inspiration I encourage you to find
his speech from last years commencement on You Tube and please pass the message on to all. God Bless
Tim Peterson
Tim Peterson
May 8th, 2009 at 3:23 pm
This is truly an inspiring and moving story. Randy Pausch was a wonderful, kind, and loving person.
He left much great advice for us to emulate and follow.
Randy Jurado Ertll
May 8th, 2009 at 1:32 pm
My 19 year old daughter wanted me to read this book. I will ask her why when she gets back from her first year at college. Her dad gave her the book. I think it was his way of giving her permission to switch from engineering to her passion, English. I think. Or maybe it was shared because of the father-daughter connection described by Randy being that my daughter is the only girl with four older brothers. Randy has a clear and engaging way of communicating simple truths.
Macy
May 8th, 2009 at 8:02 am
i really liked the book it made me very sad an happy at times it made me relize that you can lose everything in one day that you had for ever and not to always complain about little things i hope his family is doin good (:
hanna
May 7th, 2009 at 2:31 am
Today, I read your book. I am happy because I know Randy Pausch. You gave me how to use my life in future. Thank you very much..
EJ KIM
May 6th, 2009 at 8:47 am
The Last Lecture Assignment
Jarod Hood
Throughout The Last Lecture the class and I were supposed to pay attention to the lessons that are in the book. As I was reading there were some lessons that I have applied in my day-by-day life without me even knowing it was a lesson. Also there was one lesson that I have started to make a part of my life. And I found a lesson that I would like to make a part of my life.
One lesson that seemed really familiar to me was a big part of chapter 23 when it was listing what Randy was thinking about how he can live his life better without any regret. One of the things he was talking about was; are you spending your time on the right things? As I read that part of the chapter that question ran through my head. And I had to agree with what the passage was saying, “...you may have causes, goals, interests. Are they worth pursuing” (108)? And I thought to myself that I don’t waste my time with future goals cause every step you take to go towards those goals there is always something in your way which will change all those goals.
Ever since I was a kid I always have had a hard time with leaping over my obstacles that I came upon in my life. Early in the book there was such a lesson, when they were talking about how early in Randy and Jai’s relationship they had to leap over a brick wall. Randy even incorporated a saying that relates that into one of his speeches, “... The brick walls are there to stop the people who don’t want it badly enough. They’re there to stop the other people” (73). As I read that quote I made a comparison with my past also. And I realized that I have to go and get over my past fears, because they are holding me back from coming out of my shell and showing my true potential in life.
Even though I have applied all these lessons in my life, I know there is something that I can work on and try and make it a future thing for me. And I found one that was perfect. In chapter 23, Randy was listing how he can manage his life better and he brought up, time must be explicitly managed, like money. And I thought quietly to myself if that applies to me. And that is the farthest thing from a true statement. I am very bad at managing my time at home, or even at school. And me managing money, you would be better off giving a 9 year old a hammer in a glass store. I can’t manage homework or even my own personal life that well I just try and play everything by ear. And that doesn’t work very well. But then I saw a quote that kind of calmed me in a way and told me to relax and to slow down, “ it doesn’t matter how well you polish the underside of a banister” (108).
jarod hood
May 6th, 2009 at 8:45 am
Something that I’ve learned from reading The Last Lecture by Randy Pausch, is that live the life you have. “ We cannot changed the cards we are dealt, just how we play the hand.” (17) This is a quote from his book that I take to heart. To live every moment that I have, you never know when life will end, so live it up, don’t hold back. Live life to the fullest and don’t regret things that you’ve done and things that you should have done, forgive yourself. Also what this quote is telling me is that we can’t choose our family and the school we go to, but we can change the way we live our lives, and the way we do this is that we take advantage of the things that you have. Go to college after high school and study in an area that you like and that’s how you can play the hand you were dealt.
There's another amazing quote in the book that I’ve put into my life, “When it comes to men that are romantically interested in you, its really simple. Just ignore everything they say and only pay attention to what they do.” (146) This for me also applies to my family and friends, but I don’t ignore what they say, I just pay more attention to what they say. Like they say “actions speak louder than words.” It’s the little things that matter, not the big things. It’s also the thought that counts.
“So I left the store, happier to have 15 minutes than $16.” (108) To me this quote is saying that spend less time on things that aren’t important and spend more time on things that do matter.
Olivia
May 6th, 2009 at 8:37 am
Meghan Kerbyson
April 13 2009
Mr. Prout
Last Lecture
The Last Lecture written by Dr. randy Pausch was a book composed of many short stories and life lessons that he wrote down before he departed from this world. These were lessons he wanted to share with others to help them grow as individuals and as members of a community. Most of the lessons I have already learned, some I’m still getting the hang of, and the others I plan to learn in the future.
Patience is a virtue: that is what my grandma always says. I always remember her telling me to wait and be patient. In the book Randy say’s " if you wait long enough, people will surprise and impress you" (145). That automatically reminded me of that aphorism, patience is a virtue. Randy talked about how his students and life lessons they have learned- like how to fail. "the person failed often knows how to avoid future failures. The person who only knows success can be more oblivious to all pitfalls" (149). I completely agree with Dr. Pausch, failure is not useless it can show you how to grow to be stronger, help you prevent accidents in the future, and solve current problems. When you have never dealt with a dilemma you might not know how to handle it.
As I am growing up I’m starting to handle everything in a more adult way. "no job is beneath you"(168). I just very recently realized that no job is%2Proxy-Connection: keep-alive Cache-Control: max-age=0 etter than me. I can be only as good as my work. Another thing Randy pointed out in one of my favorite chapters is " loyalty is a two-way street"(153) that can apply to SO many different relationships. That was really powerful to me and made me open my eyes and want to try harder to show people that I’m putting effort in as well as them.
Many of the lessons taught in the Last Lecture I hope to discover, if I haven’t already. To never give up and know where you are, are things I think you can never stop thinking about. Those are lessons that arealways keeping you in check.
meghan
May 6th, 2009 at 8:33 am
Erynn Hodge
Message Board Response
Prompt: How have you been influenced by reading the book or watching the lecture? What message would you like to share with others who’ve been touched by Randy and his story?
Upon finishing The Last Lecture I went back and thought about the lessons I’ve learned, in the process of learning and the lessons I would like to apply in my future. These three phases of lessons learned have influenced me to become a better, and more organized person.
Lesson One: What I’ve already learned:
I have learned in my short nineteen years of living how to prioritize things throughout my life. I have learned that during each stage of my life everything has a specific place and time. For example, I wouldn’t go out to a party until three o’clock in the morning if I knew I had an exam at six o’clock. The thought process should be “[Am I] spending [my] time on the right things?” (Pausch 108). Obviously receiving an A on my exam would benefit me rather than one night of partying.
Lesson Two: In the process of learning:
The lesson that I am currently learning is time management. While dealing with school, work, cosmetology school, family and friends, I am learning many different ways to manage my time.
“Time must be explicitly managed, like money” (108), so each time I receive a new task I have to decide which would take the least time as well as which is more important. By applying the lesson learned with the lesson trying to be learned I finish all of my tasks, and I finish them thoroughly.
Lesson Three: A lesson for the future:
The last type of lesson is the one that I will apply to my future. I want to realize one statement: Happily (N)ever After “Not all fairy tales end smoothly” (80}, and although it is a harsh reality to face, it’s the truth. I want to learn how to accept by mistakes, disappointments and flaws and learn from them.
If you have read Randy’s story then use the same thought process as I did. Try to realize a few lessons that would help you become a better person either on your own or with the help of The Last Lecture. After you decide what those lessons are apply them to your everyday life and you will understand why Randy has touched so many people.
Erynn
May 6th, 2009 at 8:23 am
After reading The Last Lecture I was touched by many of Randy Pausch’s life lessons and beliefs. I learned a lot by the way Randy lived life. Randy’s outlook on life was very influential. Although not all of Randy’s lessons where new to me, I still learned some very valuable lessons.
Don’t complain, just work harder is a lesson I learned years ago. Randy believes if you put all in the energy you put into complaining and apply it to solving your problems things will work out. I could not agree more with what Randy is preaching. I learned years ago complaining does nothing. Nothing good comes out of complaining. When I want someone I know I have to work hard to achieve it. In wrestling if I want to do better I have to work hard. I will not get better if I just sit around and hope I do well. I have to do extra training to get better. I apply the same concept for school. If I want to get an A on the test I have to study and do a little extra work. When I get homework and projects I don’t want to do I cant sit around and complain because complaining will not finish my work. I need to stop being lazy and just do the work.
One of Randy’s lessons that I am still in the process of learning is the one about asking. Randy believes all you have to do is ask. You will never know unless you ask. I am trying to speak up more and ask more questions. If you don’t speak up it’s very hard to get what you want. I am learning to become less afraid of the outcome. If you ask something and get a rude remark at least you asked and you know what the result is, instead of holding back and not saying anything. When you don’t say anything you find yourself wondering what they would have said.
In the chapter titled “Lucy I’m Home” Randy’s wife puts a dent in their car and she comes home afraid of how Randy will react. Jai expects Randy to be mad so she makes him a nice dinner in hopes of easing him up. However, when Randy finds out he is not mad and doesn’t even care. The lesson to be learned is family is more important than personal possessions. I want to apply this same idea to my family when I am older. You can always replace a car, but you can’t replace a family.
The Last Lecture is a great book for someone to read who has a pessimistic attitude. This book teaches many lessons that can be beneficial for your personal life. Randy’s lessons can greatly improve your life. Its not expected that you follow all of Randy’s lessons. However, everyone can work on 2 or 3 of Randy’s lessons.
karic
May 6th, 2009 at 8:16 am
hi. my name is patrick evans and i am 13 years old. i was in my language arts class when i saw this book on my teachers desk. i asked her what it was and she said it was an insperational book written by a guy with pancreatic cancer. i became interested. my grandmother has the same type of cancer. as i read this book i came to understand the difficulties in life. it teaches little life lessons that some people may overlook. this book has also helped me through my grandmothers cancer. i want to thank randy for writing this book and my language arts teacher for buying it. if it wasnt for these two things i wouldnt be as strong as i am through my grandmothers cancer.
Patrick Evans
May 6th, 2009 at 8:15 am
The chapters in the Last Lecture have opened up a new way of thinking and has also showed me to perceive things differently while also keeping an open mind to things that may sound eccentric or just plain crazy. The lessons that Randy Pausch conveys in this book all have meaning and can be used quite often in life, but the lesson that stuck the most for me was that you cannot change the cards that are dealt, just how you play the hand. What Randy Pausch was trying t say was that no matter what you do you cannot change what has already happened, you can decide to act negatively or positively about the situation that has been dealt to you. You can try and make the best out of a bad situation or you can choose to have a pitty party and take on the term “ Oh whoe is me ”. To me this means to laugh at your problems this is me and my dads philosophy. We believe that you have to laugh at your problems to keep from crying about them. Like Randy and his neice and nephew to me it seemed like they had the same philosophy. Another way to fix your problems is to turn them into a solution by coming up with ideas that might seem crazy. For example if you totally mangle an art project you can try to change just a couple of elements in the artwork. Sometimes an outrageous idea can be the best kind of idea. Another example of this was I made a dress designed out of pennies and it took forever this was probably the most outrageous idea id ever have, however it was one of the three dresses that is in the main showcase now. I have learned from my past experiences to still shoot for the moon even if you miss you’ll land among the stars.
Anonymous
May 6th, 2009 at 8:05 am
In this book (The Last Lecture) Randy talks about many life lessons that not only apply to him but us as the reader also. Randy creates a dictionary of lessons and philosophies that he embraced over time. It took me awhile to notice how much of this book I can relate to my life.
The key part of the book that had the most influence on me was the parent lottery. The reason this chapter jumped out the most to me was how much I could connect with it. The parent lottery means that you have outstanding parents that do everything in the world for you. I am not saying that my parents are bad its just they lack certain traits that I find important in parents. It made me think about my life and if I would have hit the parent lottery how many of my childhood dreams would I have reached.
Another key part that of the book that impacted me and influenced me to change certain traits that I have would be responsibility. Since I have read this book I have been charging myself with more responsibility. I am getting older and the responsibility that I have for my self and my actions are only going to increase. It’s important that I take the time now while I’m young to learn time management. Up until I read this book I haven’t taken a step away from thinking about life after high school and into college. How dramatically my responsibility will change. This book gave me stepping-stones for life management and goals I wish to achieve.
Nick
May 5th, 2009 at 9:40 pm
This book was a true inspiration to me as a student. It really made me realize how much life there is to be lived and reminded me to get out there and learn and experience as much as possible because "time is all we have." I am grateful that my professor suggested this book and jai and family should be very greatful to have this book and the lecture to hold onto for the rest of their lives.
Jenna
May 5th, 2009 at 8:54 pm
Randy Pausch has inspired me, a single mom of 2 sons and 45 years old, to fulfill a childhood dream of going to college and become a teacher.
Thank you Randy..................
Susan
May 5th, 2009 at 4:48 pm
Sorry for my English, his message had arrived to Spain, yesterday my wife gave me the book for my birhtday and I felt a lot of things when i was reading it. Its a remember about the really important things and is incredible haw we normally forget thats things. Thanks and Good bless all of you.
From Canary Islands. Spain.
Arturo
May 5th, 2009 at 4:02 pm
Jai,
I just finished reading your husband's book. I was deeply moved by his story. I want you to know that I am praying for you and your three young children as I am sure this is a very difficult time for all of you. Please find comfort and joy in your memories of Randy.
Janet Johns
May 5th, 2009 at 3:35 pm
Jay..dearest, just a few words to say you are a great woman.I'm close to you even if so far, I'm from Italy,even if we never met. I just finished the book..my husband gave it to me for my birthdate..:O) it has been the best gift I received in my life..I'm thankful 'cause you shared with all the world one of your precios one, thank you, God bless you and His powerful hand be over you!!with love, Sarah
ps sorry for poor english but I would like to tell you I'm with you!!A big hug to yours wonderful kids!!!!!!
Sarah
May 4th, 2009 at 3:34 pm
THe Last Lecture made me appreciate my parents more. As for the future, the importance to live my OWN dreams (not anyone else's.
Lauren
May 4th, 2009 at 3:34 pm
Brick walls are there to stop the people who don't want it. He said to be loyal. Also he said you have to be tactful.
Valencia High School
Joseph
May 4th, 2009 at 3:33 pm
He has influenced me to be creative, so now I been drawing on my walls, but my mom gets mad. He also influenced me to not let people get to me. He also taught me to follow my dreams.
Valencia High School
Gaby
May 4th, 2009 at 3:31 pm
I learned that if you want to achieve your goal, you have to want it badly. Achieving childhood dremas you though about doing.The brick walls are there to test you if you want it badly, but if not then you are wasting your time.
Valencia High School
Kelsey
May 4th, 2009 at 3:30 pm
I have learned to be focused and have goals and dreams. I have also learned if you try hard enough things will become reality. That life is a brick wall and you have to conquer.
Valencia High School
Shane
May 4th, 2009 at 3:28 pm
I wish I could win all those staffed animals. He is a very interesting man. I liked how he surprised Jai on her Birthday.
Valencia High School
Andrew
May 4th, 2009 at 3:25 pm
He makes me wanna have fun cuz he reminds me of my childhood drams and how I wanted to be a pro-skater.
Valencia High School
Abraham
May 4th, 2009 at 3:24 pm
I really wish I could write on the walls like Randy did when he was young. Also I am very determined to win a big bear.
Valencia High School
Andrea
May 4th, 2009 at 3:23 pm
He made creativity more fun and interesting for me to go out and do anything.
Valencia High School
Joseph
May 4th, 2009 at 3:22 pm
He taught me that no matter what happens you can still be happy. He also taught me to never give up in life when you want something you need to fight for it. He also opened my eyes that life is short and you need to enjoy it.
Valencia High School
Rodney
May 3rd, 2009 at 9:14 pm
If only I had been so lucky to have a professor like Dr. Pausch. Reading his book makes me put everything in perspective, even the bad stuff that happens along the way. I am so thankful he was able to tell his story and touch as many lives as he has, including mine. Although he was a phenomenal scientist in my eyes he would have been just as an incredible psychologist.
Rachel Webb
May 3rd, 2009 at 6:40 pm
Just finished The Last Lecture. I feel like after reading this that I know Randy! I cant believe how incredible this man was, his legacy will last a lifetime. I'm only a teenager and his way of thinking has impacted my life greatly! Words could never describe how much he's inspired me! Thank you Randy you were (ARE) truly wonderful.
Maddie
May 3rd, 2009 at 4:50 am
Dear Jai, like Randy I love my wife of 25 years, my grown son and daughter and would sacrifice all for them. As a career police officer and now a night supervisor, I work tirelessly, rarely thinking about my end. I can feel Randy's love for you, his sadness of what he'll miss, the great memories you both created. You, and Randy have shown husbands and fathers like me that when were gone, what our true love has meant. I can feel you whisper in his ear, not to leave you...Bless you, and may the Dark Knights watch over your family. Sgt. George Houhoulis
George H
May 2nd, 2009 at 7:10 pm
I was given this book to read by a friend at work. I was hesitant to read it because I knew it was going to be sad. She assured me it was uplifting,
but,yes,sad.
I read, and bought my own copy to read when ever I wanted.
I love this book and the memories that Randy left for his family.
He had many accomplishments in his short life (I'm 62). God bless him. More than I have ever dreamed of.
Louise Armstrong
May 2nd, 2009 at 9:49 am
i've just read, for the 5th time, Randy's incredible book...i hope his children will know how important his life was to so many, including those of us who did not know him personally. i lost my own mother 15 yrs ago when she was just 59, our three children do not remember her much, but i try and talk about her so often...i want them to know they had an incredible grandmother. i know randy's wife will do the same for him and i know, too, how proud his children will be when they realize what their daddy did for so many people.
joanna backman
May 2nd, 2009 at 4:30 am
i have read the book as per my son's recommendation, and besides it was his bday gift to me last april 28. It was a touching one because we can reflect and think. even if we have no cancer, or hopefully will not have later in,life, people should reflect on what they are doing especially to those they love and cared for. ihope others will realize that life is too short, as what randy was trying to tell. i'm so glad my son has given me this book, and my other children are now reading it.....
maria teresa abesamis
May 2nd, 2009 at 3:03 am
hello
im a Taiwanese girl, so my English is poor :P
but i read this book in chinese traditioal edition and really shock me.
i think lots of things in my mind and after i read this book, i think everthing in different way.
Thank you Randy, my father died in cancer,too. but he never blamed about god, he just did his best and fight.
anyway, thank for the last lecture :)
best wish
Sophia Tai
Sophia
May 1st, 2009 at 6:36 pm
I am deeply touched by the lecture!
Thanks for sharing this beautiful message from an impressive man! Greetings from Germany to the whole family!
Frank S.
May 1st, 2009 at 5:38 pm
I finally got The Last Lecture at the library a few weeks ago. I had the hardest time putting it down. This book makes everyone look at their life and make sure they live it to the fullest! Thanks for your insight.
Jen
May 1st, 2009 at 4:15 pm
Randy's book caused me to reminese about my childhood experiences. Creativity was a big part of my life and yes I got to write on the walls when I was young as well, in fact that is how I learned how to read the clock. His message reminded me that life is a journey and we learn from it but it is important to also enjoy it.
Dana Leon
