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How have you been influenced by reading the book or watching the lecture? What message would you like to share with others who’ve been touched by Randy and his story?

August 28th, 2008 at 11:41 am
There are moments in life when you realize that you are watching someone who would change your life forever...Randy was one of them.....my prayers are with his family.God bless...
anil jacob

August 27th, 2008 at 10:44 pm
Tonight I finished reading the last lecture. I also had the opportunity to see it on you tube. This man, who I never met, has changed my life drastically. When I was 25 I was diagnosed with Hodgkin's Lymphoma. When I was 41 I was diagnosed with Cervical Cancer....both shocked me and ultimately changed my life forever. Should I encounter a 3rd diagnoses, or have a relapse I certainly hope that I could face it with as much courage, love, understanding and zest for life with the time I have left as he did. I was so amazed at Randy's ability to tackle the task at hand that I felt weak for fearing the worst case scenario in my diagnosis. Reading this book allowed me insight into his thought process surrounding his last few months. I consider myself a strong person with a great support system, much like Randy. The lesson I learned through reading his book was that I can, and should be afraid of Cancer......but most importantly, don't wait for a terminal diganosis to love life and share your thoughts and feelings with the ones that matter most! On another note, I have a tremendous amount of respect for Jai. Her strength and love for her partner allowed Randy to die with dignity, love and most importantly a knowledge that she and their kids would thrive in life and honour the memory of who he was. Kudos to you Jai, you have my respect. Randy's discription of your experience with being a care giver for a cancer patient echoed that of my partner. You have experienced something tragic and did so witha tremendous amount of class. I've seen you on interviews with ABC and I must say that you are very charasmatitic and engaging. I hope that you use the lessons learned through this experience and share that with others going through it. We have a lot of survivors of cancer helping other cancer patients - we don't have enough care givers helping our loved ones. Dr. Pausch will be missed by everyone that knew him and many others that never met him. While his kids may not remember a lot of their interactions with him they will grow up knowing how much of an impact he had on this world - I don't know of a better gift to give them!
Cindy Greening

August 27th, 2008 at 8:56 pm
Just finished Randy's book. He was an inspiration to us all. Jai-may God Bless you and your family-Randy will be with you always. Remember-he's preparing a place for you and your family with Jesus. Please take his lecture and sell it on a DVD-use the money for your children's college fund.I wish you peace and comfort-you are not alone. Rebecca
Rebecca

August 27th, 2008 at 7:41 pm
I would just like to say that Randy knew something special about life that many of us never recognize or take for granted and that was that life is short and rules are made to be broken, not everyday is promised and he used the most out of everyone of them. Jai you are a very lucky woman to have known such an awesome man. Please know that everyone including me can see that.How does someone change many peoples lives with just saying something thats on their mind. I know he has changed mine and made me finally decide weither I was going to be a tigger or an eeyore. I have choosen to be a tigger instead of allowing the days events to decide that for me which one I was. I would also like to tell Jai thank you for supporting Randy to send his message because he has helped many many people. I purhased the book and couldn't put it down, it only took me 2 days to complete it. Now I am giving this book to my spouse to read and for him to pass the inspiring message on to someone else when he's done with it. Randy to me was one of those angels that God sends to earth to remind us that life is precious and special so try to make everyday count and be a tigger we have to many eeyore's in society. And to his children know that your father was remarkable and very inspiring to many other people. May god bless you and your family Jai.
Laura

August 27th, 2008 at 2:00 pm
This book, along with Dr. Seuss's Oh the Places You'll Go - is a MUST for anyone and everyone. Randy did something completely unintentionaly with this speech of his, he became immortal. His book, his voice, his images will all carry on for generations. Congratulations Jai, you found one of the good ones.
angela

August 27th, 2008 at 1:43 pm
Hi, I am a grad student from Spain. I first got to hear about Randy´s story a month ago, since a university friend of mine sent me Randy´s last lecture Youtube web link. I fully watched it and got moved by Randy´s strengh, courage, determination and living will. He has inspired me to go on battling the daily brick walls, most of them being totally irrelevant if compared to Randy´s (and so many other people) hand of cards. I would like to encourage his family (his wife and three kids) to go on in the path of life knowing they had a terrific husband and father, who led them a very valuable wealth, enjoyable anytime just by recalling the moments beside him. May God bless Randy and his family.
Jesús

August 27th, 2008 at 11:52 am
This life commentary has been the most profound, yet the most simple legacy I have ever read or listened to. Thank you for sharing your husband with the world. Jai, strong women are seldom recognized. Your's and Randy's strength gives humankind the "shot in the arm" necessary to withstand any "brick wall" that might be encountered. You will always be in our prayers because of your tremendous gift of yourself.
Annette

August 27th, 2008 at 10:31 am
I am very glad I read this book. Even though I only knew Randy from what I read in the book, he has influenced me in ways people in my life have never been able to. It made me realize how petty we can be, letting small issues ruing our lives, our relationships, or keeping us from taking that one step towards living our lives the best we can. We don't usually think that one day we will not be here and we might not get the chance to say our goodbyes, or let our loved ones know how much they mean to us, or have one more chance at going on that rollercoaster you were so affraid of, or not taking that step towards achieving your dream because you're affraid or you don't think you can do it. We get so blindsided by every day stress that we forget about the small details, and just plain living. Thank you Jai for supporting him on giving this lecture and writing this book. God bless you and your children.
Maria Z.

August 27th, 2008 at 10:13 am
I just finished the book. I lost my mother 2 years ago and I am greatfull for this book. What an amazing man! Daily I keep on going by the memories my mother left me. Jai my condolences. The memories of a wonderfull husband will keep you strong but it will not be easy. Sabine
Sabine

August 26th, 2008 at 11:40 pm
Randy. I always remember you for my life. God bless you.
Jay

August 26th, 2008 at 9:38 pm
Im a masters student at Curtin Uni in perth Western Australia. I was given the book by my mother after a friend recomended it. I only knew of Randy what was in the book and the lecture but that was more then enough for me to wish i had met him. What a legend! i hope his message finds the rest of the world, cause the world will be better off.
Peter

August 26th, 2008 at 9:19 pm
August 26,2008 I'v worked in healthcare since 1993 and have encontered many patients with cancer and heard their stories. Never have read a life story that has completely touched my heart and soul such as Randy and Jai's. He was an amazing man with an encredable sense of family. Everyone should journal their thoughts and experences for families to share when love'd ones are gone.Jai, I offer my condolences. You's not only lost your life partner but your best friend.As your children grow, you will see more and more of Randy through the years. God Bless
Kitty

August 26th, 2008 at 8:42 pm
Words can't really express the impression of which Randy's book has left on me. The last few sections were the most touching for me in that they brought me to a different place in coming to terms with my father's passing two years ago. I am eternally grateful for this book as I'm sure you (Jai) and the children are. You have a beautiful angel watching over you and your family. Your husband is a true inspiration, an absolute dream.
Tabatha

August 26th, 2008 at 4:09 pm
I am a student at a university in Texas and had heard many things about Randy, his lecture, and his book. I saw him on the Oprah show and was in pure amazement at how full of life this man was. I bought the book, and just moments ago finished reading it. I am still utterly amazed at how great of a man he truly was. I hope his kids know how big of an impact their father has had on the world. Jai: You are stronger than you know. You will raise the children to be nothing short of incredible, with Randy's guidance from above. Rely on others and you will make it through.
Audrey

August 26th, 2008 at 3:53 pm
I picked up The Last Lecture to read on my current business trip. I had seen Randy's story on ABC and was curious to read more. What a powerful yet easy read! I could not put the book down as I wanted to see wher he was taking me in each chapter.The simplicity of the message cuts through all of the layers we cover ourselves in the modern world. While too late to thank Randy personally,I have, and will continue to share his gift to me with others.
David Christl

August 26th, 2008 at 9:45 am
I am an educator in chicago and one of the other teacher gave it to me to read over the weekend. I am so imspired by this message of the "real" way to live your life. I have gone out and bought a copy for every member of my family. Randy's life and struggle has opened my eyes again to what really matters in life, the interactions with family and friends. Thanks you Randy for imspiring me. All my best to Jai and the kids.
Rick

August 26th, 2008 at 3:21 am
Hello, I only now had access the this work; however, the life lesson and the way that should treat her sends us rethink her/it our attitudes and our values. Wantuyr
Wantuyr

August 25th, 2008 at 11:51 pm
I know that the family has tons of messages and can't possibly read these all, but I have to try. My husband is recently diagnosed with stage IV kidney cancer. We also have 3 children. A son who is 6, another son who is 3, and a daugther who is 19 months. I have been so touched by this book. My husband and I have had many of the same feelings about our kids recently. It feels so surreal to see (what seems to be) our feelings in print. To see another family experience a very similar walk in life to our own. I have no pat words to say, just wanted to share.
Stacey

August 25th, 2008 at 10:18 pm
Jai: Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for selflessly sharing the last days of your time with Randy so he could realize one more of his dreams. In doing so, he has, and will continue to enrich the lives of countless other people, including mine. I find myself referring to things he said or did in my conversations with others on a regular basis. You are a remarkable person and an inspiration to all of us who are attempting to be the best support and cheerleaders in our husbands' lives. May God bless you and your children with peace, love, joy, and wonderful memories always.
Patricia Yeamen

August 25th, 2008 at 10:09 pm
I just finished reading "The Last Lecture" tonight (August 25th) and got onto this website to look around. I was shocked and very saddened to find that Randy Pausch passed away exactly one month ago. It does touch me to my core to hear this news as I am very touched and inspired by his words in the book. My thoughts and hopes and prayers go out to his wife and three children and the rest of his family and friends. I am changed from reading this book, "The Last Lecture".
Robert Bienvenu

August 25th, 2008 at 8:04 pm
I was part of this family while I read his book. I was trying to be brave at the end and not cry while reading the last of it last night but I couldn't hold back the tears. I have lost everyone in my family except my Dad, to leukemia, and diabetes. Randy was like a gift to us letting us know it is all right to let go and still have your love go on through your children and grandchildren. I hope when my time comes I can be as brave and Jai and Randy were. It was an honor to read and be a part of your life with Randy. All my best to you Jai and you beautiful children. The video's was a grea idea, I wish I did that when my Mom was ill. You are all in my heart. Sandra Hezlitt
Sandra Hezlitt

August 25th, 2008 at 4:41 pm
I bought a "tigger" for my keychain the day Randy left this world. It is a constant reminder of him, his legacy and what he taught me. Thank you to him and God Bless you and your family.
karen

August 25th, 2008 at 3:37 pm
I am an educator, battled cancer and have read the book for a second time. I discussed the book in my class last year and gave it to a student to read and asked her to make a comment in the book when she finished as I did. She then passed it along to someone else who wanted it. It went over so well I just purchased another copy, reread it and will do the same thing this school year. I feel so strongly that Randy's philosophy is so uplifting that his message needs to be shared. He gave me courage to make difficult decisions professionally as I remembered his words"to tell the truth, all the time". I thank you Jai for your unselfish support for Randy to do this book which based on the comments I have read have impacted people like no other book recently. I wish the best for you and your children. Thank you and God Bless.
Doreen

August 25th, 2008 at 3:04 pm
My son watched "The Last Lecture" on Youtube and was very inspired at 13. He asked me to watch it and I was amazed at the presentation for his family to always remember him. I definitely shed tears but was left with a warm feeling that though he was sick he was living every day the best he could with his family. This summer my son decided to take a computer camp in Alice and the last day, Friday of his camp he noticed that morning that Randy had past away as he checked online. Our thoughts are with you. L & J
LLD

August 25th, 2008 at 2:51 pm
We were once asked how we got through the day, after my husband was diagnosed with leukemia eight months after my cancer surgery. We've refused to waste our lives dwelling on the negative, that's how. Why obsess over your disease, when you might be killed in a garden-variety accident before your fears materialize? Randy's contribution to those living with cancer is invaluable. He reminded patients with chronic life-threatening diseases to spend each moment living, not dying. We are ever grateful for his wisdom and his generosity in sharing it. His book is a treasure worth a second and third reading.
Claudi

August 25th, 2008 at 1:43 pm
I just finished reading the book and my god! what a man he was. This is one of the most touching book I have ever read in my life. I learned how to appreciate life even more than I used to. I definitely will recommend people to read the book as well. I should thank Jai, Dylan, Logan and Chloe for sharing Mr.Randy's time with us to write the wonderful book. He has changed so many people's lives and I thank him for that from the bottom of my heart. Nawang, NYC.
Nawang

August 25th, 2008 at 9:12 am
I really want to thank Jai first for giving up such precious time so we could all appreciate this book, story and incredible life. I first saw Randy on TV. When I saw his book in the store, tight budget or not, I had to have it. Now that I read it I can't wait to pass it on to everyone. I can't wait until my kids are old enough to share it with. Most of all I can't wait to try a little different outlook. Thank you Randy. I too cried when I found out you passed. Almost as if I really knew you, but I suppose to an extent I do. The world is an emptier place without you and so much better for having had you.
Jen

August 25th, 2008 at 8:01 am
Jai, Thank you for sharing your husband with all of us that were fortunate enough to see his lecture and/or read his book. Please consider writing a book of your own as you must be one amazing person with powerful insights that we all could benefit from. Everyone on my Christmas list will be receiving a copy of Randy's book and I hope each and every one of them get as much of out it as I did. All my best, Cyndie Banister
Cyndie Banister

August 25th, 2008 at 7:19 am
As a teacher myself, the title of the book first grabbed me. I was stuck in Hong Kong airport for 7 hours - due to a typhoon. I read this book cover to cover during the 7 hour delay. This is the first time I have done this in years; the book was truly magical and tear-provoking. I enjoyed the way the book was written and how you came to endure Jai's journey, as well as the whole family's. This book and the messages from Randy and his life will stay with me for a long, long time.
Ross McGill

August 25th, 2008 at 7:09 am
Dear Jai... God bless you and your children. Thank you Randy.. and Jai...
Jang So Hyun

August 25th, 2008 at 1:42 am
The Diane Sawyer interview on "TW" (time-waster) must have inspired me to buy the book, which I read in short order and am giving in September to our one offspring as a birthday present. Also, the husband of my spouse's sister has himself been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and has undergone the same radical surgery and is still suffering chemo-therapy as well. I empathize with Jai the spouse.
Bob

August 24th, 2008 at 9:48 pm
My eyes have been opened. All I can say is Thank you, the time spent on The Last Lecture was in no way selfish.
Amanda

August 24th, 2008 at 9:21 pm
My God, what a man. I don't think he realized just how incredible he was. He was a human being with innate flaws, and yet he had the ability to reach out and touch a person's inner soul. The future joy for his family, though in their grief they are not yet really aware of it, is that he will live forever. His wisdom will be passed to my children, and grandchildren, and their grandchildren. Randy will not die. His physical body may not be with us, but he will not die. Special prayers for Randy and his family.
betty

August 24th, 2008 at 7:55 pm
ACABEI DE LER O LIVRO... FIQUEI MUITO EMOCIONADA!!! FOI MUITO BONITO COMO VIVEU SEUS ULTIMOS DIAS...POIS,DO CONTRARIO DE MUITA GENTE QUE NAO TEM FORÇAS PARA ENFRENTAR ESSE TIPO DE SITUAÇAO! ESPERO QUE SUA ESPOSA E SEUS FILHOS ESTEJAM BEM E FIQUEM COM DEUS!
DANIELLE TONETTE

August 24th, 2008 at 7:40 pm
I just finished reading your book. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and dreams with the world. Jai, you are an inspiration to all of us. Thank you for allowing Randy to touch all of our lives that you were so fortunate to have as your own.
Dyanna

August 24th, 2008 at 7:12 pm
Randy's book is a brave and endearing testimony of how he planned to die with peace of mind knowing that he gave his all to ensure that his beloved wife and children had tangiable proof of his decication and eternal love for them. Randy had the thoughtfulness and foresight to plan for their compassion needs long after his passing. This is emotional insurance at its best. It was a planned and couragous undertaking and nothing short of an example of his personal mantra. What a gift he left. We should all take note.
Christine Piracci

August 24th, 2008 at 5:12 pm
Thank you for sharing your life with the world. I just finished reading your book and I passed it on to someone else. Since you shared your gift I wanted to share mine with you and your family. R.A.N.D.Y. means Receive And Nurture the Dreams in You J.A.I. means Joy Always Inspires D.Y.L.A.N. means Develop Your Life Away from Negativity L.O.G.A.N. means Leadersship Offers Gifts to Achieve Now C.H.L.O.E. means Create Happy Lives by Offering Encouragement Encouragement Speaker Derrick Hayes www.EncouragementThinking.com www.EncouragementSpeaker.com
Derrick Hayes

August 24th, 2008 at 5:02 pm
I finished the book in less than twenty four hours. And when I did I drove to my parents house to say thank you. I never quite appreciated them the way I should have, but now my prespective is different. I wish that when the time comes I too will be a good parent. Like my parents. Like Randy.
Michelle

August 24th, 2008 at 4:04 pm
I'm always into discussions on anything organic, so this read made me feel at home. I'll bookmark the site and subscribe to the feed!
Acai Berry Pills

August 24th, 2008 at 4:03 pm
I had first heard about Randy's story on Oprah, and Im almost sorry i didnt run to the book store and buy the book that day. What an amazing person and support he had behind him. I can not even put in words what an inspiration he truly is. He's touched my life and im sure he has and will remaining touching others. Randy u r my inspiration and my hero. Thank you thank you thank you.
AD

August 24th, 2008 at 3:19 pm
Jai, i am a student just starting university this year, in about 2 weeks i just finished reading your book about a half-a-week ago, and as soon as i got home from vacation, i watched his lecture. I just wanted to thank you for allowing him to write this book. I know it would not have been easy to give up precious time. I would like you to know that i think Randy was an amazing person, and i was very upset when i read that he had died. I know that it wont be easy to get over his passing, but you and your children will get through it. Randy has inspired me to be more than i thought i could be. By reading his book, i was able to realize what was important, and how i could overcome just about anything. Your husband has helped my realize so much, and i would just like to finish by saying how much Randy has affected so many people in the world. I have reccomended his book to almost all my friends, and some of them have reccomended it to theirs. Its just my was of "passing it on", just like Randy said. "Do to others what one has done to you". He helped me, so now i want him to be able to help others, and to keep his message going among my generation. Thank you
Bradley byers

August 24th, 2008 at 3:15 pm
I bought the book last saturday and I just finished reading it two years ago and I just got done watching the last lecture right now. I also just learned from the site that Randy passed on July 25, 2008! Ironically that is my brothers birthday, and this year i missed. I was frantic trying to finish writing a paper (my last paper of my last class to get my B.A., I had walked at graduation in May with two classes left to complete during summer). I was very torn about not going but I had to finish the paper and get it in the mail that night. After reading and listening to Randy I realized that life is not to be lived as a commodity and I will never miss a birthday for my brother or anyone else in my family again. Life is all about Family and Community, and although I highly valued school and education it is not the most important thing in my life! Thank you Randy for sharing your story. My deepest respect and wish to Jai and their children! Amy Carnahan
Amy Carnahan

August 24th, 2008 at 3:11 pm
Jai, I hold you and your little ones in my prayers. Randy is a wonderful inspiration.
BW

August 24th, 2008 at 3:10 pm
The book is simply amazing.I have been diagnosed with stage 3 metastic melanoma 15 months ago ,what an emotional roller coaster. My heart goes out to the family.I have been raising a step daughter for almost 8 years now and one line in the book that finally brought out all of my emotion is when Randy says that he is "the first man to fall in love with his daughter" i'll be reading this book many times to come.
Bob

August 24th, 2008 at 1:34 pm
Hi Jai, I have just read the book and as emotional as it was it was also very inspiring and uplifting!!! Randy was an inspirational man with great aspiration for life and who's bravery and love from his family and friends carried him through the dark days. Thank you so very much for sharing your husband,your beautiful children (Dylan, Logan and Chloe) and yourself with me, I hope to find an inner Tigger!!!! Jai, I just want to say I wish you and your family all the best through this emotional journey and you're all in my heart!!! A little peice of me went with Randy and it was a beautiful pleasure!!! Love Mags, Bangor, Northern Irelandxxx
mags

August 23rd, 2008 at 9:48 pm
I just finished reading this book here at work, i spent most of my time at work today reading it. This book is just amazing. This book really goes hand in hand with the secret. Randy is just amazing, i wish the best for him and his family. I first saw Randy's appearance on Oprah and i couldn't believe how positive Randy was on his outlook of life. Randy you are right, never give up!
O.H

August 23rd, 2008 at 8:46 pm
Randy's book is a reminder for all of us to not only find the Tigger within but to encourage that part of self to love the present moment as it was our last...something Randy did long befre his diagnosis. Jai, thank you for being willing to share your husband's final months with people you will never know or meet. I am awestuck by the generosity of your gift. Please know that the gift of your husband's book and your gift to share your husband at a time where it would have been easy for you to be selfish -- has resulted in a wonderful gift not only to your children but to all those who have come to know your husband now and in the years to come. As Tigger says... TTFN
S.Lloyd

August 23rd, 2008 at 6:36 pm
Dear Randy, I know you are not occupying a physical place in this world but you are certainly a great spiritual presence.thank you for sharing your beautiful life with me and yes you took a liitle piece of me with your passing.It was my supreme pleasure to give it to you. may you live forever in the hearts of your loved ones. Ginger
ginger

August 23rd, 2008 at 3:18 pm
I did like a lot of the book...it is a life lesson.I am argentina and I don't writte English very well.
graciela

August 23rd, 2008 at 3:18 pm
DEar Jai, I was so touched by the last lecture. It has become my bible. I to have lost my spouse, but to lung csncer, almost 5 years ago. The healing process is a journey all its own. If my husband had been able to read this book , maybe his last moments would have would have given him more sense of peace. God Bless you and your family.
amy freeman

August 23rd, 2008 at 11:21 am
Dear Jai and family, If only words could take away your pain, it would be gone in a flash. May you always remember how YOUR STORY, touched and saved so many lives. Remember the laughter and beautiful memories you shared and he will be forever with you. We are deeply sorry. May these letters wrap you with warmth and love. We hope you will find comfort in knowing how much others care. Please take care and hugs to each and every one of you. Your in our hearts and prayers. Warmest Wishes, Nancy and Jim Ricci
Nancy Ricci

August 23rd, 2008 at 10:44 am
Dear Jai, A friend of mine lent me The Last Lecture yesterday and I must say, the book has changed my life. It was so inspiring, motivating and filled with love, and many of Randy's words have in turn moved me and inspired me to change my outlook on life. I lost my mom to cancer when I was 13, and while losing a loved one is something that cannot be explained or understood until you go through it yourself, I do want you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. I'm so glad to know that your children will grow up to know how much their father loved and adored them, and while it must have been difficult for you at the time, thank you for supporting Randy during his writing of the book. I know it is going to continue to help and inspire many others, just as it has for me. I wish you and your family the best, not only now, but in the future. And if I may offer one piece of advice to you at this time, remember Jai, you have a lot of love in your life...don't be afraid to use it. I'm blessed to have read Randy's book and to have gianed a glimpse into the lives of some amazing people. Truly blessed, Sarah
Sarah

August 23rd, 2008 at 10:33 am
Thank You .
Carmen

August 23rd, 2008 at 10:22 am
Dear Jai, Dylan, Logan,Chloe, I wish I could hand write this as in randy's book. I appreciate his wisdom and your ability to share, your a beautiful giving individual. This will rub off on your beautiful children as they do what they see not what is said. I love the messages given by your whole family on so many levels you both practice what you preach. I thank you and am extremely humbled by your sharing and caring for others. God bless you are all in my prayers. Thanks Karen.xxxxx
Karen

August 23rd, 2008 at 10:00 am
I have just read "The Last Lecture." To say it has inspired me is an understatement.The book left me feeling so many things, especially the feeling that no one was ever a stranger to Randy Pausch.There is no doubt he has touched millions with his "never give up" attitude. How sweet it would be if all of us were as positive as he. I wish you well, Jai, with your life, but really feel that you will do well.You, too, have been an inspiration to us all.There is no doubt in my mind your children will be wonderful adults because of the parenting they have experienced.I have been so touched by this book that I have told my 17 year old son that this book is a "must read" for him. I am sure he will know why once he has read this wonderful book. May God bless and keep you and your children.
Anonymous

August 23rd, 2008 at 7:07 am
2008.8.23.Saturday 'The Last Lecture' should strike fire from the heart of me. I'm not good at speaking English. So I cannot express myself in good English. Words cannot express it. I read through a book yesterday, I entered this homepage today. And I heard that Randy was dead. It makes my heart to this news. I looked forward to read my message for Randy and Jai. I wish for happiness Jai and children. I cherish the memory of Randy. God bless Jai and children... p.s>> My name is Jang So Hyun. I live in Korea and highschool student. I want to read this message Jai...
Jang So Hyun

August 23rd, 2008 at 5:14 am
Jai, Dylan, Logan & Chloe - I am so sorry for your loss. I, too, lost my dad 2 years ago this July to cancer (I'm 36 years old, but still a kid, I think, sometimes). I was in the process of reading Randy's book (I'd read a few passages, then put it down for several days reading something else) when I heard that he had passed away. Consequently, I finished reading it. Would you all like to know what impressed me the most about the book, what I brought away from reading the book - his love for you, Jai, & your kids. I felt as if had had packed a lifetime of love in the short time he had with you & it came through loud & clear in the book. Again, Jai, Dylan, Logan & Chloe, I'm sorry for your loss, but please remember that he loved you all very much. Gloria Flowers
Gloria Flowers

August 22nd, 2008 at 9:26 pm
Dear Mrs. Pausch Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss of your husband Randy. I have been so inspired by your husband's book and of course the lecture. I too have suffered the pain of cancer taking a loved one, my best friend, my mother quite a few years ago. I know there is nothing I can say that will help right now, but cherrish the happy memories you have. He obvisouly loved you so much. He was an incredible human being and as you can see from all the messages, hits to the website, etc. he made a differnce in this world. That's incredible. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the children. Take comfort in how many lives your husband has touch. He has inspired me and I'm sure for many generations to come.
Diane

August 22nd, 2008 at 2:42 pm
Dear Jai, I've started to type this a million times, not knowing what to say to you. As I read the entries filled with condolences, I offer mine. I do know that nothing anyone says is ever going to ease your grief. I have no doubt you miss him more than any mere words can say, and I will keep you and your children in my prayers. I am extremely grateful to you and Randy for sharing your lives with us. I feel privledged to have seen the last lecture, read the book, as well as, checking his website of health/family updates. I know it is way too soon, Jai, but in his memory, when you feel up to it...please update the site with how you and your children are doing. May God Bless and Keep You Jai, and The Children. My heart goes out to you, your family, his family, and your children. Sincerely, Doreen
Doreen McEntee

August 22nd, 2008 at 2:31 pm
I am just days away from beginning my sophomore (the wise fool) year of being an elementary and middle school music educator. I just finished the book moments ago, and felt myself compelled to come to this site. I was so deeply moved by Mr. Pausch's words in so many ways. He has given me new light on what it means to be an educator, and how important a role it is in a child's life, whether they be a preschooler or a graduate student(which I also am). It also showed me how important it is to take time to yourself when you're a cancer caregiver. My mother was just diagnosed with lung cancer about 2 weeks ago. I cannot thank Jai enough for understanding Randy's need to write this book and give his last lecture, for it is truly an inspiration to me, and I'm sure for all those who have and will (including the Pausch children)encounter these very powerful words. Thank you.
Erin

August 22nd, 2008 at 1:10 pm
3 Words: A MUST READ! and 3 more words: THANK YOU RANDY!
RA

August 22nd, 2008 at 12:58 pm
Wow, what a powerful book. It really puts things - life itself - into perspective. What an amazing man Randy was, and his wife & kids (and colleagues) were even more amazing and very influential in the last months of his precious life. It was very evident that he loved his work (his profession), his family, his wife, his childhood, and just life in general. It just goes to show you that anything is possible, if you work hard enough for it and just keep at it (and don't give up), as Randy said over & over again in the book. I just got done reading the book and feel like a new person already with a whole new outlook in life, and how short it is. Truth be told...I have a 4 yr old at home and a 2 month old baby, and work F/T, so of course I have little time to read a book or watch TV, but I can honestly say this is one book I refused to put down. Once i started reading it, I was hooked and determined to finish it (quickly). I was not gonna let it take me months to finish. I just finished reading it and I cried & cried. I could not fight back the tears, no matter how hard I tried. There is something (among many others) very important and crucial to me that I learned from Randy: I will not dwell or stress over the little or 'trivial' things, like how dirty my house is or what someone may think of me or my family. Life is way too short to spend that kind of precious time on things like that. I'd rather spend the time and put forth the effort into my family. The book has taught me that there's more to life than having a spotless house and/or materialistic things, or 'hip' things as he would call them. I don't know the Man but he has touched so many lives including mine, and has taught me so much. I will never forget his 'Last Lecture' and the legacy he has left behind. I encourage everyone (whether you like to read or not) to read this book at least once in your life, and just keep reading it. I promise you that you'll never forget the advice he has to offer. It's truly inspirational. I wish Jai & her children (and family) well. Nothing can bring Randy back, but I'm certain she is holding onto all the wonderful memories of him that will last forever. God Bless the entire Pausch Family - they have lost a phenomenal man.
Anonymous

August 22nd, 2008 at 12:32 pm
I MUST SAY YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE VERY LUCKY TO HAVE HAD A MAN LIKE RANDY IN YOUR LIFE! AFTER READING THIS BOOK, I FIND MYSELF THINKING OF MY CHILDHOOD DREAMS AND HOW I WANT TO INSPIRE MY KIDS TO HAVE DREAMS OF THEIR OWN! I AM SO GLAD I READ THIS BOOK AND I THANK RANDY AND EVERYONE ELSE WHO HAD ANY DOING WITH THIS BOOK! MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS TO JAI AND FAMILY. JUST KNOW RANDY WILL LIVE ON!
JENN

August 22nd, 2008 at 12:21 pm
Dear jai and family, i just finished reading the most amazing and inspirational books ever. It made me realize how important life is and how quickly it can end, i always like to feel i will live forever but also live life like it is my last day, i am so sorry for your loss of a great man, great husband and a grater father. Randy you left the world in july but your words and wisdom will be here for all to see and read and i admire all you did in your last lecture, thank you, joe
Joe Iovine

August 22nd, 2008 at 6:26 am
Dear Jai, Wish I could have read the book sooner so I would show my gratitude to Randy for such wonderful messages he has brought to me. Thank you very much for sharing your experiences and thoughts and I have learnt a great deal on how to treasure life and the love around us. Take care. Your kids will be very proud to know thier father is a legend.
Angela

August 21st, 2008 at 8:09 pm
Dear Jai, Dylan, Logan, & Chloe: My deepest sympathies with the loss of your husband & father. I know how you are feeling as my father past away on July 10th, 2008 also with pancreatic cancers. It is hard and you never forget a love one, especially a parent. People say 'time heals' and you get use to it. I just finished reading Randy's book and it was well worth it! Randy's positive outlook in life during this last moments were incredible; he truly speaks of 'living your dreams' which he truly did. My father & Randy will truly be missed.
Frank Di Adamo

August 21st, 2008 at 7:27 pm
Gracias! Es increíble el amor de un padre por sus hijos, y gracias a esta lección he aprendido a ver la vida con otros ojos, a contemplar a mis hijos, y ponerme en la situación de este hombre me estremece. Es contagioso el amor a la vida, el amor por otros, es sentir una vida en paz. Definitivamente es la mejor lección de todas, gracias a Dios por la sabiduría que le dio a este hombre, y gracias también por este inmenso legado.
MAURICIO

August 21st, 2008 at 6:31 pm
Truly truly a beautiful Man that so loved Life that he shared so much. Randy showed us all what true courage and Love was. He showed us that life is for living, and loving. He inspired us to learn, to laugh, and to acknowlege our pain. We take so much for granted, and worry so much. Yet when faced with a real dire situation such as Randy faced, very very few of us would have the strength, dignity, and selflessness to go where Randy has gone. The one thing that pains me the most about this is remembering his tears when he spoke of not seeing his children anymore. YET I believe that Randy does and will be very much a presence for those beautiful children thru the words that he has, and always will speak. Randy has taught us the right ways to live, and that...the greatest of these is LOVE.
maria

August 21st, 2008 at 4:23 pm
My deepest sympathy to the entire Pausch family.I lost my mother years ago, at 15 years old, it was devastating. I grew up and decided I wanted to nurse and care for people. I am not working in a Hospice where I care for many people like Randy. It is heartbreaking at times but very fullfulling to make someones final days as pleasant and comfortable as possible. I recently was told of Randy's journey and just bought his book yesterday to read. I have read and watched bits of him this site and and inspired already, and I haven't even read his book yet. I'm sure after reading it I will recommend it to all the nurses I work with. Life sometimes isn't fair, and we lose the ones we love too soon. I hope that someday me and nurses like me no longer have a job because they have found a cure for this terrible thing called "cancer". Pat
Pat

August 21st, 2008 at 4:14 pm
Thinking of you, Jai, and the kids. Hoping you are all doing well. I hope someday you will do an interview. Perhaps I'm nosy and I suspect you are a very private person who was reluctantly thrust into this limelight during the most of awful of life's circumstances. I'm struggling with lesser things, to be sure, but nonetheless worrisome, and I'm taking Randy's advice to heart every day. We would never have known about Randy (or you for that matter) had it not been for the horrible disease that took him. But I'm thankful he shared his life's lessons for the kids and it found its way to the general population. You had a short time together but it seems like it was joyful and quality in every way. Be well.
Jeannie

August 21st, 2008 at 3:49 pm
This is one of the best books I have ever read! Take care all!
Anonymous

August 21st, 2008 at 7:44 am
Dear Jai, As a cancer survivor myself, I hold many of Randy's thoughts, feelings, ideas, and actions very close to my heart. Diagnosed with Malignant Melanoma in 1978, I have survived to see my daughter grow up, graduate from college, get married and I have just been told that I am to become a grandfather. I only mention this because of Randy's thoughts, in his book, on the subject and I know how he felt. My reason for adding this blog is to request that you follow up on "The Last Lecture" with your story of events throughout this life altering, changing, enriching, and moving time in your life. It is so important for the caregivers, the unsung heroes of life, to have a voice in what others can do expect, savor, laugh at, become emotional over and remember when a loved-one is in throws of a terminal illness. As the book shows us, Randy took a proactive approach to his illness, which almost forced you to do the same. My wife, my best friend, my lover, and the mother of my child had a rougher time than I did in dealing with my illness. Like her, you have had to deal with all of the other everyday aspects of daily life along with Randy's failing health. I applaud you, I ask God to give you the strength and wisdom for your future. I am sure that Randy is in heaven thanking God for you, your compassion,your feeling, and left this world knowing that your children could not be in any better hands. Again, please, please, let us know your side of "The Last Lecture", as it would mean so much to those that are on the other end of such an event. Sincerely and Respectfully, Robert G. Hardy Clearwater, Florida
Robert G. Hardy

August 21st, 2008 at 7:02 am
Thank you Jai and family for giving up some of your precious time with Randy so that he could prepare for The Last Lecture, thereby sharing himself with the world. His legacy will live on forever, and what a true blessing to know that he left this life with such a positive impact on the world.
Deb Wood

August 21st, 2008 at 6:55 am
My deepest sympathy to Jai and the kids and his mom and sister and family.I watched the Last Lecture and read the book. He is a very courageous and inspiring man. A great speaker too!He sure sets the example of how we should react in times of adversity.His legacy will live on and continue to help people, his family will be proud.
Kathy

August 21st, 2008 at 12:06 am
Reading this book inspired me to write a list of childhood dreams that I had. Like Professor Randy Pausch, I dreamed about working at the Walt Disney Company. I paid my first visit to DIsneyland when I was three, I had the song, "It's a Small World After All", stuck in my head since then. I am always fascinated to experience the festive and light-hearted atmosphere at the amusement park. I want to make a difference in the world by providing millions of people joy and laughters at Disneyland. I always thought that laughter is the most contagious thing on Earth. Besides working at Disneyland, I dreamed about ringing the bell at New York Stock Exchange. I used to spend every morning staring at the television screen watching important public figures ringing the bell at NYSE; I want to do this because this to me, symbolizes the bell of a fresh new day. After the bell rings, everyone in the world will start working and achieving whatever task they need to do. I love the energy and determination that people process and I love it more when people are connected together to achieve more. I have two other dreams that I want to achieve. Whether I will accomplish any of these dreams, I hope that in my journey of reaching for these goals, I will inspire other people to start thinking about what childhood dreams they once had and start attaining it. I want to make a difference in the world in every possible way because I have a feeling that I am designated to do so. I cannot describe how much I got from this book. I want Jai and her kids to understand how Professor Randy Pausch had changed an ordinary girl's attitude towards life in a way that she had never imagined. Thank you so much.
Angel Hu

August 20th, 2008 at 11:43 pm
I just got this book from my mail and I finished it in the afternoon. This book provided me motivation and reassurance that I will always be able to achieve my dreams. I believe I am experiencing what Professor Randy Pausch referred as the "brick wall"; I was once greatly devastated by this obstacle, but after reading this book I realized that I still have countless opportunities awaiting for me as long as I work hard for it. From now I will be as earnest as I can be because I believe that this is the right attitude to face life. Thank you for sharing your life with us, Professor Randy Pausch. You made me realized how much of an impact a mentor can have on his student. You changed me, and perhaps many other people who have read your book, in a way that you would have never thought you would. I remember I started doodling on the walls in the living room since I was way too young to remember how old I was. I did not know what drove me to pick up a crayon and start drawing whatever thing that came to my mind. Surprisingly, my parents never scold at me about my impetuous act of drawing all over the previously milky white wall. They just laughed at the random animals or stick figures I drew on the wall. They tried to distract visitors from grasping at my outrageous act of drawing all over the wall by placing a big picture of my father besides the pool in the middle of the wall. This picture did not stop me from doodling; I had several attempts to draw my father's face next to that picture. Years passed by and I filled up the wall behind the couch, I started looking for other places to draw on. I immediately spotted the ceiling. I climbed up the stairs and reached out my little arms with color pencils in my hand and drew some ridiculous looking creatures. I found it incredibly fun as I was drawing in a way that I had never tried before. Later on, when I started to understand that drawing on the wall was not what all the others kids at school was doing at home, I suggested my mom to have a home makeover so then we could paint the wall to cover my drawings. Although I believe that my parents never really thought that allowing me to draw on wall could possibly enlighten my creativity, I enjoyed the freedom of drawing on a big open space. This made me appreciate the freedom and care that my parents provided me; I never really thought that it was some sort of "heroic" decisions that my parents made, but now I figured that their love was so profound that evening messing up the entire wall in the living room would not piss them off. I always thank my parents for their unconditional love on their birthdays; and I would write a thank you card to my mom on my birthdays because she was the one who overcame so much pain and stress and presented me to this world on that particular day. I love my parents, and after reading this book, I wonder if my love would be enough to reciprocate to what they've done to me. I promise myself that I have to strive for my dreams so then my parents would be proud of me, proud of having a daughter who takes initiatives and challenges just like the six-year-old little girl who suddenly started drawing on the wall one day. I have strong faith in myself. I believe that with perseverance and strong determination, I will succeed and inspire others to be successful one day. Rest in peace, Professor Randy Pausch.
Angel Hu

August 20th, 2008 at 9:42 pm
Well I loved the book so much that I read it in a day. I don't know how to describe my feelings, other than I am so deeply touched. Although Randy's passion, experience, and wisdom inspired me, I think what left the biggest impact on me was the absolute devotion he had for Jai and his children. I want them to know that there are people all over the world praying for them in their time of need. Our hearts are broken, and we grieve with you. The Lord will pour out blessings for your family- I just know He will.
Marisa

August 20th, 2008 at 8:33 pm
I lost my father a few months ago. In efforts to find direction through my grieve, I picked up Randy's book and began reading. So began my healing journey. Randy has opened my eyes, heart and soul! I don't believe I will ever view life the same. He has become my new inspiration. I use his words to live by now as I try to pass it onto my children. Jai, Dylan, Logan and Chloe: Randy was a remarkable man. He truly was God-sent. Be brave. Be happy. His legacy will live with you forever.
Nadine Khemlall

August 20th, 2008 at 6:30 pm
I first received this book as a gift for my high school graduation. I did not know what it was, and I was somewhat annoyed I got a small little novel as my gift. Little did I know that this book, and Randy, would change my mindset forever. Reading his story helped me understand that life is a precious gift. Even when times are hard for me, I have to understand how lucky I am that I am alive and healthy. Going on to college this next year I will live by many of Randy's clever life lessons. I will never forget the hope and love of life Randy Pausch had.
Leah

August 20th, 2008 at 6:28 pm
I am so sorry for your loss. I learned more from The Last Lecture than words could express. I lost my husband John in January 2008. He was an extrodinary man. Randy's words have helped me to know it is ok to take care of me. I truly know what a brick wall is now. Jai, peace be with you and your family. Know how much Randy loved all of you.
Karen Whitehead

August 20th, 2008 at 4:40 pm
Wow! Thank you, dear family for sharing Randy with us in his "The Last Lecture". I purchased the cd's on Amazon not knowing how much they would affect me. A few friends of mine and I listened to this on our way back from working in a church camp, what each chapter had to say and teach is what all of us need to hear and teach to the generations to come. Simply put, honesty and integrity! A very moving lecture...not easlily forgotten. I am also a parent to six lovely children and many times it has crossed my mind, "What am I leaving behind as a legacy for my children?, What am I teaching them that will carry them through their growing years and beyond?" I also got this to help me in my business, to keep me motivated and inspired. I opened a gift shop three months ago and have felt the stress from all angles. This book gave insight to many areas: letting go and trusting, trying not to worry about the things we have no control over and more! May God give your family strength to carry forward in your lifes ahead. You are remembered by many in such a difficult situation with love and prayers. Love, Sue
Sue

August 20th, 2008 at 1:56 pm
Dear Jai, I have been following Randy's compelling story after the article in the WSJ. I listened to the lecture, purchased the book and begin reading his blog. I looked forward to the tidbits of information about Randy's health and day to day activities. His optimisim was inspirational. I cannot fathom your great loss and that of your children. I prayed that he would miraculously recover. I felt such sadness when my husband told me he had passed away. I cannot imagine your grief and despair. I know your children will bring you great happiness and laughter to get you through this dark time. Thank you for allowing us all to share the best of Randy. Sincerely, Mary Ellen
Mary Ellen Sullivan

August 20th, 2008 at 1:08 pm
This book amazed me in every sense of the word. I learned how to live not only a full life, but a meaningful one at that. Randy has opened my eyes as I hope he has fr many others. He will be missed by many, but in his passing will be helping so many others. So thank you Randy, you will be truly missed.
Matt

August 20th, 2008 at 11:32 am
i was at target browsing on the book aisle looking for some reading material i could read at work during the graveyard shift when my eyes got caught by this book entitled, "The Last Lecture". I got curious and read the message on the cover sleeve of the book and bought it. I don't know if it's fate playing on me but the book contains life lessons and advises that i have actually considered and applied to raising my 5-year old daughter. And today at her first day of kindergarten, I saw the excitement in my daughter's eyes, the yearning to learn and to be with other kids. She didn't cry, she kissed me and said, "I'd be fine mommy, i remember all the things that you told me and I'm ready." I got teary-eyed and hugged her and in my heart I know she's gonna do real good in school. Thank you Mr. Pausch and to the publisher of your book for sharing life's lessons to people like me. I know your family is proud.
marie golding

August 20th, 2008 at 5:04 am
What to say? I watched the video online in March 08 and was moved as many of us were. I followed Randys progress online, hoping that he'd beat the odds but knowing as a fellow scientist that this was unlikely. I'm sad to hear the Randy has died. That said, I'm glad I heard his messge. I'm glad his message was so frank and raw that it fasinated me. I'm glad that it appealed me as I relived my childhood dreams, whilst I listened to his lecture. May God hold him in the hollow of his hand. Thanks for having the wisdom to share your story. Dermot
Dermot O’Mahony - Sydney Australia

August 20th, 2008 at 3:11 am
Professor Randy Pauch's journey in life is truly inspiring and could only have been shared by someone with an outpouring of faith,love and hope for family and others. The stories and events shared can only be spoken by a man with great dreams and a big heart. This Book certainly will not be a last lecture but a lasting one as many more come to know Randy through this book and the values in truly living a purposeful life. Khoo Boo Boon Philippines
Boo Boon

August 20th, 2008 at 2:41 am
I found what is truly valuable in my life from your message and the last picture taken with your three children. That picture is very very very beautiful.
Hong G. Kim(South Korea)

August 19th, 2008 at 8:58 pm
My father was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer Sept. 20th, 2007-- just two days after Randy gave his last lecture. Randy's doctor at MD Anderson is also my father's doctor, so I have followed Randy's progress very closely. Like one of Randy's children, I have a father who has been disgnosed with one of the deadliest of all cancers. Like Randy, my father chooses to continue to embrace and serve those around him. Like Randy, my father has always been a Tigger -- we just didn't think about using that descriptor. I know his children will one day be inspired by all they will read and see and be told by others regarding their Dad. They will be better people, stronger people because of it. I am old enough to watch my Dad as he is living through this and I will never be the same. It is a gift that only my Dad in only this situation can give me. It is one of those "teachable moments" professors talk about. Randy made sure to give that same gift to his children even before they are old enough to receive it. Smart man. My father and Randy found joy in spite of all the emotional and physical pain that comes with a diagnosis of pancreatic cancer. My father and Randy figured out a way to truly beat cancer.
Stephanie

August 19th, 2008 at 8:12 pm
Like many others I have just finished reading the book and am typing this through a river of tears. Words cannot say enough about Randy and his beloved family and what a true inspiration they have been to so many people around the world. To Jai and the children: My heart breaks for you. None of you will ever be alone, for the hearts of millions will always be with you FOREVER. This man will not quickly be forgotten. Thank you for letting us into your hearts and becoming a part of your family. Please know that everyday people will be thinking and praying for you and the children. You are all an inspiration!
Emily

August 19th, 2008 at 6:47 pm
It is impossible to express with words the gift of have listened to Randy. His life is a beautiful example, and only I prey to God for his family to be able to live united through the life that this so wonderful man teach them, the sadness of his dead comes to all even in other countries, all that read his book or listen to his conference, are grateful for him and for having existed.
Mariana Carrillo

August 19th, 2008 at 6:00 pm
I had watched the video a couple of times but after he lost his long hard fought battle, I felt a huge desire to read his book. My sorrow is that I did not read it sooner. It has transformed my life and how I approach every aspect of it. Randy's strength, courage, love of life, family and all those he touched is one that not many can do. If I lead the rest of my life the way Randy led his, I will look back and remember just what this man I never had the pleasure to meet meant to me. He is a true inspiration and I am so grateful Jai agreed for him to share his life and journey that I know will touch millions of people for many years to come. Dave
Dave Davis

August 19th, 2008 at 1:24 pm
This book has really impressed me and has really changed my outlook on life and how I interact and perform in my professional and personal life. He is truly an inspiring individual to me and hope that his family is doing well now that he has passed. I turned to this book to give me guidance as a father and husband and it gave me so much more. I learned a lot that I plan to share with many others. If everyone could live their life as a tigger like Randy has it would be a very wonderful place to be. I hope anyone who has read this book and learned of his life will pass it on to friends and family. I have already passed it on to 3-4 people going through their own difficulties and plan to keep talking about it for generations to come. He will be missed by millions upon millions of people. Jai and the children must realize they have a much bigger support system than their immediate families and hope that we will get an update on how they are adjusting to things. It takes a strong family and support system to go through things like this and I am very grateful that you have opened up your personal life to the world.
Jon Knabenschuh

August 19th, 2008 at 10:42 am
I finished reading the book last night. I watched the video this morning. I am truely inspired by Randy. My dad was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in 2005. He also, like Randy, underwent the Whipple Procedure. He, like Randy, has gotten his "death sentence". On the flip side, my dad is very much like Randy in the sense that he is very wise, though with a "dry" sense of humor, and he was an engineer. Thank you for allowing me to read about such a personal experience. Randy's words have brought new meaning to my life. I can honestly say that Randy is the reason for me being able to better accept the fact that I will soon lose my dad, in the same manner. I can also say that because of this inspirational book, that I now know how to live a life worth living! Thank you Jai for giving Randy the "GO" on this lecture. It has truely moved me in a way that I will be forever grateful. My deepest sym,pathies are with you and your beautiful family. Randy's legacy will live on throughout all those who knew him, loved him, and read this book. I will never forget the lessons he taught within the book, or the new lease on life he has given to all through his writings. May God bless you and your family!
Jennifer Raymond

August 19th, 2008 at 8:58 am
Wow! What an incredible man and family. I had never heard of Randy Pausch until I recently watched the Diane Sawyer interview. The next day I went out and bought the book. I was truly touched. He had so much gusto in his life even at his weakest moments. I will cherish the book and many of his points that he has made. I was deeply saddened to learn about his death. He will truly be missed and I wish all the love and prayers to the Pausch family.
Amanda Roberts

August 19th, 2008 at 8:35 am
what an ispirational lecture and book this is, i only recently learned of Randy from a radio talkshow about him, and immediatly went out and bought the book, it re-inforces that you need to not forget the fundamentals in life. thank you for showing me the way, and i agree with everyone who has left messages Randy will be an inspiration for generations to come
Andy

August 19th, 2008 at 6:58 am
I can only say I love Randy, he is the most courageous person I have ever seen and his talks certainly changed my entire outlook in life. Through his message he will live for a very long time in my thoughts and heart. This man was very touching, and he had an unselfish way of looking at life.
Enyel S. Perez

August 19th, 2008 at 4:40 am
Don't worry. You loved your life. Your life loved you, too. The end is new start. My English is not good. I'm so sorry. But, you can have my love, too.
Moo gung, Kim

August 19th, 2008 at 3:36 am
I would like to thank Jai for letting Randy do the Last Lecture. Because of her go signal, we were all touched.
Rolan Pabustan

August 18th, 2008 at 8:40 pm
The book is such an inspiration, now I need to watch the video. His comment in the book about others' comments that he just needed to be optimistic hit home. He felt that sometimes they just thought he wasn't optimistic enough. John Walsch once said that it bothered him when parents of lost children commented that their children came home because of all the prayers. Walsch said since his son didn't get to come home did that mean he didn't pray enough or was he not a good enough person. Both of these men have taught us how to deal with uncomfortable situations. I admire Mr. Pausch greatly and hope only the best for his family. May they thrive and remember him for the good father he was.
Shirley

August 18th, 2008 at 8:27 pm
I'm a highschool graduate moving on to college and even though i got good grades and had the high goals, i see now i had no drive or determination to even come close to reaching them. After reading his book, I have been inspired to be the best i can and live out my child hood dream, to always find the joy in life. Thank you Randy. My sympahty to Jai, you are a brave woman. Don't give up.
Jordan

August 18th, 2008 at 7:41 pm
The Last Lecture really inspired me, randy really seemed like an amazing man! never knew him, but was really touched by his last lecture...really makes u have a much more positive outlook on life! It was amazing also to see how close randy, jai and the kids were, a truly amazing family!... The book made me laugh, made me cry, and has made me want to do more things with my life and chase after my dreams! Thanks Randy for sharing your amazing dreams with us all, you will never be forgotten, all my prayers for you and your family jai
Stephen

August 18th, 2008 at 7:08 pm
I just finished the book detailing this mans wonderful journey. I would like to wish Jai a very happy birthday and hope she was surrounded by her children and the loved ones Randy wanted her to be with for the rest of her life. You are all in my prayers.
maryellen

August 18th, 2008 at 4:46 pm
Randy is a perfect role model. He has taught us to check ourselves today. Be happy now no matter what stands in our path. We control our destiny. Not the brick walls. He did not get his smarts from Material things. The best things in life are free Love, Family, Hope, Trust. His Dedication to helping people stands out. He controlled his own destiny. We can too!!!!
Scott

August 18th, 2008 at 4:16 pm
What a truely inspiring book and person, whether you have cancer or not, Randy's unique way of looking at things is like the owners manual for people. Thanks Randy and to his childern for inspiring him to share. Pete Anthony
Peter Anthony

August 18th, 2008 at 2:05 pm
We had to watch the last lecture in class everyone was very inspired by it. The last lecture touched me in a very emotional way. I feel for Randy, his wife and children. The quote about brick walls is very true and I have had many examples of things I've had to overcome in my life, obstacles that I've had to stick to it and just do it. Thank you for inspiring me to live my life to the fullest.
Bob

August 18th, 2008 at 2:05 pm
This is a great lecture and i am so inspired by what Randy has said about life. He is a great person and will be greatly missed. He made an effort to let people know how life should be and how important it is to try your hardest for the things you want most. I know i can always remember these things and its a great lecture for anybody to hear.
Jenna

August 18th, 2008 at 2:05 pm
I thought the speech that Randy gave was very inspiring to me! He will be missed by everyone that he touched with his speech. After watching his speech i watnt to read his book!
Alyssa

August 18th, 2008 at 2:04 pm
Hi I watched The Last Lecture in class and I really enjoyed it. Im a Tigger by the way. I think you're a very smart person. It really helped me get through my day.
James Estabrook

August 18th, 2008 at 2:04 pm
After watching this lecture in class this has affected me A LOT. I think you were a very smart person. I think am a tigger most of the time. I used to think life was boring but now after watching this i think a lot different. Their is a point in life!! :)
Amber

August 18th, 2008 at 2:02 pm
i have not yet read this book but i would like to read it. I saw the last lecture on youtube. Randy was a good person to listen to it seems. He inspired me to see the world on a positive light and keep your self up and not to get down on things thats are obsticals in your life. I will watch his lecture again and get more out of it than what i did the first time a watched it. He had the best points in this lecture. I enjoyed watchin/ listing to his lecture and will always remember to see the world in a positive light. The brick walls also was a good metaphore.
Quinn

August 18th, 2008 at 2:02 pm
This book has inspired me majorly. i now strive to be more like "tigger" The advice has helped me in many ways to overcome many obstacles in life. I would recomend this book to everyone.
Dustin

August 18th, 2008 at 2:02 pm
The lecture was very insperational and so encouraging to live a life with a positive attitude. It helps you press on when there is a brick wall and even when you think your dreams won't come true, you should keep dreaming and believing and you never know! Thank You!
Shannon

August 18th, 2008 at 2:01 pm
i think that the speech was great and i think that it was a great idea to give a speech that is dedicated to your kids. I was a really inspired when i watched this speech in my computer class im glad that it was shown and i think that every one should watch it, it really makes you think and put your life and how you live it in perspective. I would watch it again and again.
Lindsay

August 18th, 2008 at 1:16 pm
I really loved watching the last lecture. Randy made people laugh and made the lecture interesting to watch. Even though he had cancer he didn't make the lecture about the fact he had cancer. It made people think about how to live their lives. Randy lived his dreams and I think the only regret he had was leaving his wife and kids behind. To achive all of your childhood dreams, that is what's trully amazing.
Andrea

August 18th, 2008 at 1:13 pm
I watched the video and it was very inspiring to me. I see myself as a Tigger after watching the Last Lecture.
Andrew Kono

August 18th, 2008 at 1:12 pm
Live your life to the fullest,because life goes by quicker than u think.Randy Paush was a good person and people will miss him. He liked to use the brick walls quote a lot.
Andrea

August 18th, 2008 at 1:11 pm
our school mad us wach your lectur, i t hought it was realy stupid to begin wiht and becouse i dont like school usaly i think every thing they make us do is dumb, but it hought your lecture was great. to hear about your acomplishints and your amzing life was unforgetible.
Tree

August 18th, 2008 at 1:11 pm
Randy I want to thank you for making me realized that I should live life to the fullest...and that you shouldn't take anything for granted no matter how much you didn't like it.
Abbie

August 18th, 2008 at 1:10 pm
Randy's good attitude toward everything is really inspiring. The Last Lecture really makes me think of how good things are and how to make every experience a good one.
Amber

August 18th, 2008 at 1:10 pm
Live your life to the fullest,because life goes by quicker than u think.
Andrea

August 18th, 2008 at 12:23 pm
The book is so inspiring. It reminds you that every day matters and you should spend it wisely. Randy also tells us how important it is to follow your dreams and to not loose sight of what your childhood dreams were. I know that one day this book and the lecture will mean so much to his children. Thank you for sharing and mostly for making me think about my life and how I want to live it .... And for the quotes - I will definitely use them!!
Cheri

August 18th, 2008 at 9:33 am
The Last Lecture is the best book I have ever read. His ideas on how to live a great life are so simple but so true. I have shared his thoughts with many people and told everyone I know to read to book. I have promised myself that I will try to live like him from now on and teach my child to live like him too. RIP Randy, The world lost a beautiful human being the day you left this Earth. Amy-Dracut, MA
Amy

August 18th, 2008 at 9:30 am
I READ AND LISTEN TO "THE LAST LECTURE." THE MAN HAD SO MUCH MORE TO GIVE TO THE WORLD. THIS HAS MADE ME DO DEEP INTROSPECTION IN MY LIFE. SYLVIA
SYLVIA LEE

August 18th, 2008 at 8:41 am
wonderful story and gift for anyone going through or related to cancer patients
carolyn

August 18th, 2008 at 6:24 am
Thank you so much. I don't finish this book yet and I'm reading it now. I am grateful for the opportunity to have read and listened to Randy's, experiences. Good luck Mahnaz
Mahnaz

August 18th, 2008 at 5:45 am
Dear family! yesterday I finished reading the last lecture while I was sitting in the train. At the end I cried silently because it really moved me a lot how Randy was confronting his cancer and how he liked to live his last time with all of his heart. I really recognised that live is to short not to be lived but only to fulfill duties. I wish you to best with all my heart and I hope that you always will feel the love of Randy, because death can´t stop the love, its only a bridge to another world! Christiane, Vienna
christiane

August 18th, 2008 at 3:34 am
I will be forever impressed by Randy's attitude towards this event in his life. I have read the book cover to cover and Randy's words will forever be in my heart. He made me stop and think about the way I am living my life, and how I could improve on that. I have shared the book with the rest of my family and we have all not been able to put it down. Thank you Randy for putting your thoughts on paper. I am sure that your children will one day be so so proud to have had you as their father, and Jai was a very luckey woman to have had a man like you in her life, even if only for a few short years. May you rest in peace. All the best to the Paush family. Keri
Keri

August 18th, 2008 at 2:09 am
I would just like to Thank Randy's wife for sharing a part of her husbands life with all of us. I lost my dad from Pancreatic cancer. His Last Lecture book has been inspiring for me and I hope to pass it on to my family and friends. Once again THANK YOU!!!!
Malinda

August 17th, 2008 at 11:53 pm
I LOVED THIS BOOK ALOT Jai "LOOK ALWASY TOWARS THE SUNSHINE AND THE SHADOWS WILL FALL BEHIND " I bought the book on Saturday and I finished on Sunday i loved it a a lot my 14 yr old daughter is going to read it next. Bless your heart and your kids too Take care and God Bless you
Johanna Beltran

August 17th, 2008 at 11:25 pm
It's August 18th, and I just found out about Randy's passing. I can't stop crying. I had never heard of Randy or The Last Lecture until Diane Sawyer, and after watching the lecture, put it on my myspace, bought and read the book, and started a journal to my kids that I try to write in as much as possible. Jai, I'm a fellow horse enthusiast, I'm about six hours away from you in Tennessee, if you are ever near Bristol, come by, we will ride. I had pretty much shoved my hope of going back to competitive hunter jumper horse showing once my children were born. I only kept a few horses that had abuse and neglect histories for lawn mowers, basically. Yesterday, I brought home a prospective competition horse. That's in part to Randy's teaching. I realize after watching him that denying myself a shot at my dream is to also deny my children the teaching that anyone can and should still go for their dreams, no matter what their situation. Oliver Wendell Holmes said " The great thing in this world is not so much where we are, but in what direction we are moving." Randy embodied this motto to me. I may not be where I want to be, but I am moving in the direction of my dreams, and I'm going to let my kids see that. To the incredible man that Randy was, and to the incredible things that will happen in this world because he was in it. Jai, God bless you and your children. Thank you for sharing the love of your life with all of us. We all love him now, too.
A.D.Harman

August 17th, 2008 at 10:50 pm
I finished reading this book recently, and I truly believe that this book has opened my eyes. I understand the impact of tragedy on a family, and learned through numerous challenging obstacles how to overcome these tragedies. I lost my brother a few years back tragically. I learned that a persons heart is his/her soul. The heart of Randy is pure and reflective of the best intentions. The last lecture is a great message that we overlook in our busy lives. I have learned to stop and live for the moment shortly after my tragic encounter. Randy's work reinforced that stance for me. May you Rest In Peace. God Bless your Kids and Wife, Jai. All the best,
Mohana Khaled

August 17th, 2008 at 10:34 pm
Just read the book and was drawn to the website. My mother-in-law and I share books and she gave me this as a gift. After searching on the website, I understand Randy is with you in spirit. Please understand that this book has effected millions of people, for myself it was so emotional I had to put it down at least ten times. I have two young boys, Tyler 3, and Logan 1. My wife and I feel so lucky have eachother and our children. The lecture has helped me think about the bigger things in life, not to sweat the small stuff, and LOVE more everyday. Please understand that this message is a VERY powerful one. The strenght your family has is wonderful! The Smith's August 2008
Nick Smith

August 17th, 2008 at 9:47 pm
Our fondest ALOHA goes out to Jai and her three beautiful children. Randy's "Last Lecture" has been inspirational to so many and here in Hawaii no less than all across the globe! His touch on our personal lives is immeasureable - his quote of today and "...enjoying it...That's the way the rest of my life would need to be lived" is validated by how he lived out his life and his legacy will go on touching all of us to "enjoy it" everyday! At work we are asking all of our leadership to read his book and view his lectures and we are holding discussions around his inspiring outlook on life - and we are re-calibrating ourselves and in turn our workforce. MAHALO!
Debbie

August 17th, 2008 at 8:18 pm
My life has been forever changed by Randy's lecture and the book. The message is so deeply moving and profound and the messenger is so filled with light, love and integrity. His passion and determination to speak his truth has given me the courage to scale those brick walls and find gratitude for the opportunity to do so. Jai...thank you so much for the love and compassion you have shared with the world. Blessings, love and comfort to you and your children
Sue

August 17th, 2008 at 7:58 pm
I just wanted to say that not a day goes by without me remembering the messages Prof. Randy taught and lived by.I cannot imagine how much he is being missed by his family.I read the message his sister left here-I want to thank her for commenting. I have a dear brother...I pray that all of you may be blessed with peace and joy again. I know that Prof.Randy wants that for all.
Valerie

August 17th, 2008 at 7:48 pm
Gracias Jai y familia por permitirnos conocer a Randy y la Odisea que han vivido en esta preparacion para la partida. Me he bebido las paginas del libro con la esperanza de llegar al final y encontrar que todo habia mejorado... con tremenda tristeza al ir a la pagina me he dado cuenta que no esta mas con nosotros fisicamente pero nos ha dejado un legado muy especial para todos los que leamos La ultima leccion. Todo amor. Un abrazo inmenso Doris
Doris

August 17th, 2008 at 7:15 pm
Hi, I just finished the book. I'm going to pass it along.
Kim

August 17th, 2008 at 4:42 pm
Tammy, Jai, and family, I have my husband reading Randy's book as I compose this message. Thank you all for sharing Randy's message. It has had a profound effect on my family, and we are in the process of redefining our priorities. Randy summed it up best. I know you must really miss him but he has had an amazing effect on so many people, down to the core. Thank you for sharing him with us. Linda
Linda

August 17th, 2008 at 3:06 pm
I wish I had known you! I wish I could have been your next door neighbor, or even lived down the street from you! I wish I could have been the parking attendant where you parked your car, or the employee at the drive thru where you stopped for coffee. Just to feel your energy, and to say I had seen your smile! Instead I will be satisfied to say you moved me deeply with your lecture, and that your book is life changing! Especially three simple sentences on page 193 about your daughter. "I'm aware that Chloe may have no memory of me at all. She's too young. But I want her to grow up knowing that I was the first man ever to fall in love with her." I could not stop the tears!
nancy allen

August 17th, 2008 at 9:39 am
buongiorno,credo che Randy abbia lasciato un segno indelebile nei cuori di chi ha letto il libro,tutti dovrebbero conoscere la straordinaria esperienza che ci ha regalato,esperienza di coraggio e amore vero,un forte abbraccio a tutti voi.Bruno from Bannio (ITALY)
bruno

August 17th, 2008 at 8:56 am
Una verdadera caricia al alma.Este libro logra extraer la verdad de nuestra existencia, y plantearnos si fuimos , somos y seremos capaces de perseguir nuestros sueños, los que realmente nos hacen felices. Esta ultima leccion del profesor Pausch, se convertirà en muchos de nosotros, en la primera, para comprender y agradecer a la vida todo lo que nos ha dado.Muchas Gracias!
Graciela

August 17th, 2008 at 5:22 am
A truly memorable book,Randy was a remarkable person; Jai, thank you for allowing us to share in your lives and sincere wishes that you and your precious children will experience happiness again in the not too distant future.
Anne, Australia

August 17th, 2008 at 1:48 am
I finished reading the book today and can`t express my gratitude towards Randy. His words, his experiences, his life, his magic gave a positive attitude view to my life. I`m greatly influenced by his thoughts. God bless his soul and his family. You`ve left us Randy but your works here will be immortal..
karan saggi

August 17th, 2008 at 1:34 am
Thank you for living...for being...for giving us all a part of you.
Helena

August 16th, 2008 at 11:18 pm
I felt as though I lost a close friend when hearing of Randy's passing. This book touched me deeply and I have recommended it to all of my friends. Randy was an awesome person!
paige

August 16th, 2008 at 11:16 pm
I started reading this book to my father at his hospital bedside yesterday. He is suffering from Esophogael cancer and while he made it through his surgery he has now contracted pneumonia and has been placed on a breathing machine, and every other life prolonging machine known to man. I read him four chapters before leaving and just had to finish the book on my own last night. I did not learn of your husbands passing until this morning and I wept for the world has lost a truly remarkable sole that has inspired me to live to my fullest potential and I hope that message has reached my father to inspire him to overcome his hurdle. As many keep the bible in their nightstand for religious reference, I can promise you this: your husband's book will remain at my nightstand as my moral compass. May God comfort you and your children through this very difficult time.
Rosemary

August 16th, 2008 at 10:19 pm
Dear Jai, I saw an interview on TV last week featuring Randy, and immediately sent away for The Last Lecture. Having read the book today, I then watched the lecture. I cried often and smiled equally often, and felt I just had to tell you what inspiration thousands of people all round the world will be finding in the wisdom of Randy's stories, which are your stories as well. You must have been a great team. With love from our family to yours.
Mick Ormond, New Zealand

August 16th, 2008 at 4:19 pm
A few months ago I was flipping through the tv channels and came upon a documentary of this extraordinary man and his message. I knew he had little time to live, because he said so, and so I watched and searched online for his book. It seemed like it took forever to receive it. I'm taking my time reading it so as to absorb every bit of Randy's knowledge and wisdom, and cannot help but cry knowing that such a great person is no longer here to share some more. I can't wait to share his life with those I love. To Jai and your children, please accept my heartfelt condolences and may you be comforted by the beautiful memories you two shared and by the fact that your lives touched so many others. Thank you Randy for inspiring me. God Bless you.
Adriana Villarreal-Mroczka

August 16th, 2008 at 1:11 pm
Jai,Dylan,Logan and Cloe, First off, my love, prayers and sympathy. Do you have any idea how blessed you were to share life with this incredible man? I would have loved to have known him for even one day. He is watching over you all and waiting for you to join him for eternity. He left a powerful message for all of us to do the things we need to do for ourselves and our loved ones. What an inspiration he was not only to his children, but all the children of the world including us kids at heart. He has enriched my life by his appearance on Oprah and his book. God Bless you all as you go on this journey that will one lead you back to Randy. Jean Heidler Lesmeister
Jean

August 16th, 2008 at 10:19 am
Thank you to Randy and Jai for sharing your lives. One of the most touching messages of this whole experience you've shared, I have not seen much written about......that of true love...with all it's difficulties and personal flaws that must be overcome and how you did it, and even in the face of such tragic circumstances,kept on plugging on. I am in awe. Randy's commencement speech for Carnegie Mellon was the most touching and positive thing I have experienced in a long time. Thank you for letting us know that true love is not just for fairy-tales. It is attainable. I have a feeling that even though Randy has passed, his magic will continue to be a presence and comfort for his family. I wish Jai, the children, Randy's mother, sister, and extended family all the best.
Alanna

August 16th, 2008 at 6:49 am
Thank you Randy, thanks so much. u reminded me my child dream, u gave me the energy to find my way to achieve it. now i can say it proudly , this is the legacy u left us, the world... I had never realized that i won my parent lotto until u reminded me... i thanked to my parents that day R.I.P love u randy
Justin

August 16th, 2008 at 6:23 am
hello there, i'm litia and i'm a malaysian. i'm so sorry for your husband but i gotta tell you that he was a great writer.Proud to be said,every students in my school get to know about him and started knowing about him by buying the book or surf the internet. One of our consultant or teacher of public speaking did talk about him.Just wanna let you know, he is the best and great writer that i ever knew in my life! @ i'm sure u and your children will be really proud of him. bye-bye.....
Litia

August 16th, 2008 at 6:14 am
방금 이 책 읽기를 마치면서 감사한 마음을 전합니다. 언제까지 나의 숨쉬기가 이어질지 아무도 모르지만 최선을 다하며 살고 싶다는 마음이 솟게하는 책입니다. 한 순간도 무심히 살지 말아야겠다는 생각도 듭니다. 다 큰 딸에게도 이 책을 볼 것을 권유하며 건내주며 그 삶을 닮기를 바라는 마음입니다. 가족들에게 하나님이 주시는 평안이 함께 하기를 기도합니다.
오진순

August 15th, 2008 at 11:19 pm
i just got done reading the book i bought it 5 days ago and was moved with some of lines specially this part( We embraced and we kissed, first on the lips, and then i kissed her cheek. The crowd kept applauding. We heard them, but it was like they were miles away. As we held each other, Jai whispered something in my ear. "please don't die." It sounds like Hollywood dialogue. But that's what she said. I just hugged her more tightly.) that part really touch me. Randy is a great man Mrs Jai and a lot of people will remember his legacy through this book. I am glad i bought this book ive learned a lot.
Lyndon R

August 15th, 2008 at 9:58 pm
Sou de São Paulo, Brasil e hoje terminei de ler o livro do Randy. Na verdade quando comecei a ler não sabia do seu falecimento. O livro me passou fortes mensagens, me fez pensar também em minha vida, no que vale mesmo à pena. Abraços à família e estou torcendo para que vocês sejam felizes, pois essa era uma das preocupações do Randy. Flavia
Flavia

August 15th, 2008 at 9:20 pm
To say that I was touched by this book is a tremendous understatement. It made me realize the truly important things in life...Family and friends. Randy was so fortunate to have such great parents and many beautiful chilhood memories. The REALLY IMPORTANT THINGS. To Jai, May God give you peace and comfort you and your children.
Debbie

August 15th, 2008 at 8:14 pm
Recently while sitting on a NYC train on my way home I pulled out this wonderful book. A very young man was sitting next to me and asked me if it was a good book. I replied that, yes it was, but it had been a bit hard for me to reconcile its inspirational message with it's tragic reality. I then realized he had not yet read the book because he told me that his mother had sent him a copy and included a red crayon along with it. I was truly touched and truly inspired.
Heriberta Diaz

August 15th, 2008 at 7:41 pm
I have just started the audio book. Audio because I'm too busy to have time to read. Isn't that funny...I wonder if Randy spent time reading or figured his time was better spent doing other things. How crazy life is that we don't always know what is "worth" our time. I hope to learn Randy's secrets, Jai's strength and have just a small peak into the love they shared.
Sue

August 15th, 2008 at 6:48 pm
THE DASH - I read of a man who stood to speak At the funeral of a friend He referred to the dates on her tombstone From the beginning to the end He noted that first came the date of her birth And spoke the following date with tears, But he said what mattered most of all Was the dash between those years For that dash represents all the time That she spent alive on earth. And now only those who loved her Know what that little line is worth. For it matters not how much we own; The cars, the house, the cash, What matters is how we live and love And how we spend our dash. So think about this long and hard. Are there things you’d like to change? For you never know how much time is left, That can still be rearranged. If we could just slow down enough To consider what’s true and real And always try to understand The way other people feel. And be less quick to anger, And show appreciation more And love the people in our lives Like we’ve never loved before. If we treat each other with respect, And more often wear a smile Remembering that this special dash Might only last a little while. So, when your eulogy is being read With your life’s actions to rehash Would you be proud of the things they say About how you spent your dash? * Randy spent his dash extremely well *
Mark Samson

August 15th, 2008 at 6:08 pm
I am an RN in an Emergency/Trauma Room and some time ago I figured out that all we have is this moment. I see lives end, and change on a dime. Randy's lecture and book moved me in so many ways. Since I didn't win the Parent Lotto, I really don't recall many childhood dreams. However after watching Randy 20 times, taking notes, reading his book, seeing the Diane Sawyer interview I am spending some time searching for those dreams, and some teenage dreams, and adult dreams. Randy has inspired me to make a move if I want to, try new things, ASK!!! He is a "Bodisattva" of our time, one who commits his life to healing and healing others. His energy will continue to go on until it returns again in new form. His wonderful wife and children are truly beautiful and brave in every sense of those words. I wish that this lecture could be mandatory viewing for all who enter the ER with minor problems. They could have such expansive lives with Randy's lessons. Thank you to Randy and to You Jai, for sharing the precious time you had with Randy with the world.
Heather

August 15th, 2008 at 1:51 pm
I just got done reading The Last Lecture and I want to thank you (Jai et al) for "allowing" Randy to do this. I've lost many friends and family to cancer and they all taught me the same thing that Randy was trying to teach-Live Your Life...a lesson well learned is one not soon forgotten. As Randy will be remembered, so will those who's last lecture was done on a smaller scale.
Michael Fitzsimmons-Gillespie

August 15th, 2008 at 12:19 pm
I kept saying I would buy this book and saying I would buy this book, and it was Dr. Pausch's death that finally prompted me to do it. A remarkable man, a remarkable life, and a remarkable and unforgettable message. I will carry his wisdom with me always. Rest in peace, Randy Pausch, and may God bless and comfort your amazing wife, Jai, and your children.
Anne Noble

August 15th, 2008 at 9:03 am
THE DASH I read of a man who stood to speak At the funeral of a friend He referred to the dates on her tombstone From the beginning to the end He noted that first came the date of her birth And spoke the following date with tears, But he said what mattered most of all Was the dash between those years For that dash represents all the time That she spent alive on earth. And now only those who loved her Know what that little line is worth. For it matters not how much we own; The cars, the house, the cash, What matters is how we live and love And how we spend our dash. So think about this long and hard. Are there things you’d like to change? For you never know how much time is left, That can still be rearranged. If we could just slow down enough To consider what’s true and real And always try to understand The way other people feel. And be less quick to anger, And show appreciation more And love the people in our lives Like we’ve never loved before. If we treat each other with respect, And more often wear a smile Remembering that this special dash Might only last a little while. So, when your eulogy is being read With your life’s actions to rehash Would you be proud of the things they say About how you spent your dash? * Randy spent his dash extremely well *
Mark Samson

August 15th, 2008 at 8:17 am
Jai, Dylan, Logan and Chloe, Thank you for allowing Randy to share his life journey with the world. I just finished the book last night with tears overflowing. Ironically, the Olympics were on and all I could think was that I have to share this story with my 2 babies - Ava, who is almost 22 months and Dean, just turned 3 months. I can't stop thinking about Chloe in particular, because Ava and Chloe are so close in age. So I wrote a note to my babies in the cover of the extra copies I bought to give them when I think they are ready to really learn how a man accomplishes his dreams. His life is an inspiration and a method lost these days. I wrote myself a note on my copy and reminded myself of the dreams I had/have ... that I know I'll accomplish one day. As your children grow ... so will mine and they will share Randy's story together... what a legacy to leave to children everywhere for years and years to come. I'll bet he's smiling just thinking about that ... where ever he is in the universe (most likely right next to you all ... in spirit at least). Thank you again for sharing your lives ... if Chloe ever needs a play mate ... Ava's always looking for one! Kris Levin Ashburn, VA
Kris Levin

August 15th, 2008 at 7:03 am
Vivo en Argentina, y acabo de leer el libro. Realmente me siento sumamente conmovida. Quiero enviar un fuerte abrazo a toda la familia de Randy. Aquí, la "Última lección" se pasó por televisión y ha resultado conmovedora. Sé que sus hijos cuando crezcan se sentirán muy orgullosos de su padre. Un saludo desde el corazón, nuevamente a todos ustedes.
Alicia

August 15th, 2008 at 4:59 am
hi,I purchased the book and read it twice and saw the the last lecture on Tv twice. What an inspirational and wonderful guy and I was given the gift of hearing for the first time in Aug. of 2006 like it's a new life for me. More Confidence and taking a positive outlook on life and Thanking God everyday for it and enjoying life and Having fun. I recently started playing the piano again and riding my seven speed bike. I am 47 years old and I just want to say that he will be missed by alot of people. My prayers are with you and the children. Thank-you! Marcia
Marcia Jean Miller

August 15th, 2008 at 2:00 am
Thinks Doctor Randy!We chinese students also respect you very much!
Aaron

August 15th, 2008 at 1:27 am
This book has really touched my life! It has inspired me to truly start living my life.
Kathleen

August 14th, 2008 at 11:20 pm
Dear Jai and family. I just finished reading Randy's book and I can't begin to tell you how much it touched me. I would have been honored to have a professor like that in my life. I am so sorry for your loss, my heart and best wishes go out to you. The love he had for you and your family was so tangible it leapt off the pages and I was moved to tears many times at his thoughts on leaving you behind. May God bless you in the years to come and may you always feel the warmth of Randy's love in your heart.
Heather Huston

August 14th, 2008 at 9:42 pm
Ifeel totally up lifted and even more so compelled to leave a message of thanks to Randy and my condolences to Mrs.Jai and there children.I am a lower middle class step-father of three boys which I love and think the world of ,And life is a struggle and times are hard sometimes,but reading then seeing Randys life struggles and accomplishments renews my sense of how life is truly precious and how not to take anything or anyone for granted,live every day as it is your last and always know there is room for improvement in anything you do..I was...No I am deeply and truly moved by his wisdom and honesty in what must have been the most trying time of his life,And just to see him stare in the face head on is truly a great inspiration for us all...Thanks Randy I personally will never forget what you made me come to relize.
A.J. Buras

August 14th, 2008 at 8:48 pm
Thank you all for the most wonderful things that you have written about my brother...
Tammy

August 14th, 2008 at 8:11 pm
I want just you acheive your last dream
Jeong woo sang

August 14th, 2008 at 5:50 pm
God Bless you and the Kids Jai-- My heart is with you.
Natalie

August 14th, 2008 at 5:42 pm
I had read about Randy's death and was interested in reading the book. I had a friend diagnosed with pancreatic cancer five years ago. He like Randy had 3 children and like Randy was 47 years old. So this past Sunday afternoon while at a bookstore I made the impluse purchase of the book. I began to read it and on Sunday evening received a call from a friend letting me know that David was in his final hours. We had not realized until later that David had died some 12 hours before. I see such parallels between my friend and Randy. As I read Randy's words, I am grateful for two things: 1) Someone who fought HARD against death. Randy didn't want to leave. You can see that it is lecture and read that in his words. 2)Someone who cared enough to pay it forward. Yes that phrase is trite but that is exactly what Randy has done. Randy received his legacy from his parents; he knew what he owed his children, realizing he wouldn't be here to give it to them personally he did it in the means available. What a great witness to the gift and joy of life. Thank you Jai, Dylan, Logan and Chloe for sharing Randy in such a personal way. May the years ahead be filled with dreams and opportunities to fulfill them.
Steve Chapman

August 14th, 2008 at 4:30 pm
Jai, You are as amazing as your husband was.........His parents have to be two of the most grounded and logi